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As long as you don't drop the glass, it is fine Yes thats a very important thing too. Dont break the glass and label it fragile Whenever something or someone means a lot to me, I am really careful. I always handle with extra care then ü Having a long distance relationship would put that to the test Larsi. In fact doubled I think Ah well. It is just common sense. Treat your partner the same way, you want to be treated Doesn’t work all the time. Being nice sometimes is not the way as tough love is not an answer too. In short , sometimes love just aint enougb And were still on topic right Aye. We are still on topic I know. Life is not easy, love is not easy. But being nice might be a good start. Though sometimes, bad experiences from the past make us suspicious, and we are not open for something new Yes fight or flight i am skeptical because of my past and a long distance relationship made it double. To all who wish to have this kind of relationship its no different from an actual one in terms of real communication, honesty and commitment. The core of your belief of how the person is and why you fell in love with them in the first place should always be there to keep that relationship going as it keeps you fighting for that love and goal to be together. Indeed. Honesty, commitment and trust don't know boundaries and work over long distances. But you have to build these up step by step. And only if they are fully achieved, then think about being together and fight for love |
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I have tried long distance a couple of times.
1. Talking on line or on the phone was great. He seemed like what I wanted. He flew a couple of thousand miles to meet me and it was great. We talked more and I packed up and moved there. HUGE mistake. A week together was not an example of who he really was. He was on his best behavior. But I got to see the real him when I moved there and it wasn't at all what I wanted or needed. 2. It took seeing him 4 times to see the real him and again it wasn't at all what I wanted. At least that time I didn't move there. It is too easy for people to put on their best face online or on the phone. Meeting for the first time or a few times again is short-term and almost anyone can put on their best. You don't see them with the normal ups and downs of life. I am getting plenty of responses from people far from where I live. Some just hate it when i say no to a long-distance relationship. But I know what I can and can't do and I won't try it again. |
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Hii
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Lust has grown out tremendously in this world no love left
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Always Love!
Just maybe not found on the Net. |
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It takes commitment , a lot of patience, sweetness, spice and everything nice Not enough! Also blind faith in fate...that you will LIVE TOGETHER someday, instead of on different continents, meeting once a year. |
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I have been in contact with someone that lives quite a distance away. As a result meeting is hard and often we both feel we are not caring enough about each other. who else has issues with this type of relationship? First, In general, long distance relationships rarely work out. You invest a lot of time and sometimes money communicating before you actually meet for the first time. Then depending on how that first meeting goes...if it is a complete let down, you have wasted a lot of resources and your screwed. Depending WHERE this long distance relationship is happening, remember that if it is from outside this country it may mean the only way for your partner to come here is to marry them. Secondly and probably more importantly, you have been on this site for just about a week and I remember some of your first posts. I hate to burst your bubble but if this new "contact" was met on here and you are not savvy to how some of the scammers operate, I would be very very careful about how you approach this...do not under any circumstances start sending any money(for any excuse they give you) until you know them quite a long time(months and months), by then you'll know if they are for real. Just trying to look out for a newbie |
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It is all about what you expect from a relationship and what else is part of your life. If the relationship is an enhancement to your existing lifestyle, then long distance can work. If you want a relationship that is the central part of your life, then long distance won't work.
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I like long distance dating
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