I just haven't yet and it's making me anxious. I hope someone feels obligated. Sex, age, et-cetera, do not matter.

Believe me they will start coming in then you will say Oh my I'm overwhelmed- send some out to other people and most will reply!!

it happens more to females than males, believe it or not... Probably has something to do with male testosterone. You'll get your messages, don't worry - From all different types of characters.

i know what ya mean. ive been on here a couple of weeks and nothing.hope your luck changes. im waiting one more week and then im out of here.have a great week.

you'll meet a variety of people here.if your not to picky,yet,more specific....open minded and unjudgemental....you'll make alotta friends.

hang in there. I've gotten most of my new friends by responding to them privately after I've seen what they've posted and commenting on the forums myself. Just making comments to them privately shows them you're interested wether in friendship or possibly more.

from my own experience i have made tons of friends in the forum so my suggestion is jump on in...its alot of fun and a real good way to get to know the people on here

I agree with Peachie 100%, if you want to be "known" other JSH'ers have to "see" you.....post, post, post away.....

Good luck, I hope you find what your searching for...

steelangel:

I'd have to disagree with you on women getting more messages than men. When I first started on here, it seemed ok, and now it's gotten down to zero. Not a surprise. But I probably will head for other sites, with more people. It seems as too many want "perfection" or are just shopping. And after the one experience, recently, with a guy who turned out to be probably a nutcase, I'm wondering about the whole dating arena altogether. If a person can't make a friend, how are they to date??

Romantic

I'd write to you, but your limits won't let me. If you chose, write me & then I can answer. Don't quit because of one bad experience. Like driving, would you quit because of one minor accident, or a close scare. Hope not.

From my experience, you have to just dive in and start sending messages yourself. Some may answer, some may not.

"It's not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself." - Eleanor Roosevelt

never lose faith!

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