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INEEDLOVEFROMYOU
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Sun 12/02/07 07:54 PM
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Why is it so many people[men and women] either can't or will not comit.Or if they do they cheat.Why tell someone you have feeling for them one minute and act like you don't the next.Why would anyone toy with someone's heart.And if you do care why do you treat them so bad.Is there anyone still true out there?Why is everyone a slut or user?Can anyone find true love?Why do I like the ones who hurt me?Is there a faithfull girl for me?I have to think not,but still I can hope can't I?I want us all to find our soulmates.To be alone sucks, but to be with a liar and cheat is much worse.I don't want hate in my heart,but what is left when you give all your love and get walked on.You have to open your heart more.In time love heals all wounds.I'm wounded but not dead,I must move forward or I'll get trapped,in regret and hurt.My heart is open and I hope your is too.I cast out my pain and I hope you will also.So when I find that special women to spend the rest of my life with.I will have room to grow and a bunch of love to share.So I am not to hurt to care.Where have the good ones gone and how do I get there? TRUELY Kenny PS I'm a full time dad and love it.I just want someone to share my love of life with.
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Why is it so many people[men and women] either can't or will not comit.Or if they do they cheat.Why tell someone you have feeling for them one minute and act like you don't the next.Why would anyone toy with someone's heart.And if you do care why do you treat them so bad.Is there anyone still true out there?Why is everyone a slut or user?Can anyone find true love?Why do I like the ones who hurt me?Is there a faithfull girl for me?I have to think not,but still I can hope can't I?I want us all to find our soulmates.To be alone sucks, but to be with a liar and cheat is much worse.I don't want hate in my heart,but what is left when you give all your love and get walked on.You have to open your heart more.In time love heals all wounds.I'm wounded but not dead,I must move forward or I'll get trapped,in regret and hurt.My heart is open and I hope your is too.I cast out my pain and I hope you will also.So when I find that special women to spend the rest of my life with.I will have room to grow and a bunch of love to share.So I am not to hurt to care.Where have the good ones gone and how do I get there? TRUELY Kenny You can't get there......... It's not a place to go. It's like the wind. It brings her to you. When the time is right along with the place and you heart is ready to achieve such a great thing... one thing you really desire she will ride along with the wind, ...wait for the time and right moment... that's when you will trully know.... seek in your heart what you trully desire, and life will find you waiting. Later brother Richard |
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I completely understand...I have never once cheated..either on my mate or with someone that had a mate..it is strickly against my morals..and I am not jealous with my mate, but I have been cheated on by every serious relationship that I have been involved with.
..I have a running joke now (it is funny to others, but it is the truth, and it hurts) I always tell guys if you wanna find your soul-mate, just date me for awhile. Apparently, every guy finds her while with me. I have had at least two guys cheat on me, dump me for her then get married to her...talk about depressing..what the heck is so wrong with me? I am like you, I have the love, but it is getting scary to let anyone in anymore...I am afraid to go through the pain anymore.. |
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People are gonna be people, no matter what. Everyone is looking for something, even if they lie to get it. All you can do is not look so hard. I learned to not take things so seriously and move past it right away. Just keep looking till you find someone, its all any of us can do.
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sorry man i didnt even read what u wrote, but damn that jenna is hot
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Kenny, i feel ya, i'm only 23, and i've had that same story happen to me several times, my first 2 g/f's lasted 2 years each, and both cheated on me. The fact of the matter is this, love from another is a bliss we can only hope for when we don't have it, and the trick to dealing with that is finding love from within yourself. A wise friend of mine, told me to find something to do, that makes me feel more fulfilled. It helps! For me, i have 2 vices i have turned to, 1) work, i'm a school bus driver, and the kids on my bus remind me of the innocence of the world every day, it keeps me down to earth. 2) i've fallen in love with the gym... not i'm a muslce head... i'm actually over weight, the idea is i'm bettering myself, that is the only thing i can control, is MYSELF... i can't control the situations i find myself in, just as you can't, or anyone else... Good people are going to be cheated on, lied to, and spat on, why? because there's good and bad people in the world, and bad people take advantage of good people, or maybe they get bored with us, or whatever... it doesn't matter the reason. Not everyone operates the same way, and to some of us the trials and tribulations of life itself don't make sence, because they create situations that if it were up to US, we'd never allow to happen. I feel ya Ken, but i promise you this ok, you find something that brings you joy, and conentrate on that, and you will find yourself being a happier person on a more regular basis, you will actually relise that you don't need someone to make you happy, that you can do that on your own... and THEY SAY that helps actually meeting someone, they say that you radiate a feeling of self confidence that way. *shrug* i'm still waiting for THAT part to work for me, but i can tell you this, I FEEL better about MYSELF. I'm single and hateing it, but being single, gives me all the time to spend time with my friends, go to the gym, work over time when i can, concentrate on the things i can control.
Other than that, anyone who cheats on or lies to a good person, male or female... needs to get their heads checked, and that's just bein real. -Marcus |
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Kenny, i feel ya, i'm only 23, and i've had that same story happen to me several times, my first 2 g/f's lasted 2 years each, and both cheated on me. The fact of the matter is this, love from another is a bliss we can only hope for when we don't have it, and the trick to dealing with that is finding love from within yourself. A wise friend of mine, told me to find something to do, that makes me feel more fulfilled. It helps! For me, i have 2 vices i have turned to, 1) work, i'm a school bus driver, and the kids on my bus remind me of the innocence of the world every day, it keeps me down to earth. 2) i've fallen in love with the gym... not i'm a muslce head... i'm actually over weight, the idea is i'm bettering myself, that is the only thing i can control, is MYSELF... i can't control the situations i find myself in, just as you can't, or anyone else... Good people are going to be cheated on, lied to, and spat on, why? because there's good and bad people in the world, and bad people take advantage of good people, or maybe they get bored with us, or whatever... it doesn't matter the reason. Not everyone operates the same way, and to some of us the trials and tribulations of life itself don't make sence, because they create situations that if it were up to US, we'd never allow to happen. I feel ya Ken, but i promise you this ok, you find something that brings you joy, and conentrate on that, and you will find yourself being a happier person on a more regular basis, you will actually relise that you don't need someone to make you happy, that you can do that on your own... and THEY SAY that helps actually meeting someone, they say that you radiate a feeling of self confidence that way. *shrug* i'm still waiting for THAT part to work for me, but i can tell you this, I FEEL better about MYSELF. I'm single and hateing it, but being single, gives me all the time to spend time with my friends, go to the gym, work over time when i can, concentrate on the things i can control. Other than that, anyone who cheats on or lies to a good person, male or female... needs to get their heads checked, and that's just bein real. -Marcus Very open and sincere... really cool... Why is it that girls find the bad guys???? |
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I agree and KNOW the PAIN of a cheater..
But in life I think so MANY of us seek or are found by another to BOTH "feel" that 'we our in-love'. But then with LIFE after awhile, one or the other finds that THEY are no longer happy with the OTHER, so THEY turn elsewhere or LEAVE that relationship.. They STAY sometimes as to NOT wanting to hurt the other, so THEY PLAY....and then the OTHER gets HURT.. But ANY break-up is hurtful to one of them, if not BOTH!  But we our all just human and full of the ability to love and hate. And the ONES who last forever, are very blessed people.. who BOTH have very great inner strengths to OVER-COME "ANY" problems that arise in their lives....and MAKE THEM GO AWAY!!! And then when one of them dies through time and age, the OTHER is'nt far behind...Why? Because sometimes in life it is possible for two souls to live as one....thus...Soulmates! And their hearts , minds, and souls, can't survive w/o the other! Just MY THOUGHTS of life I have seen and followed...
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Excellent question. That's all I'd like to find, too, is someone that wants a commitment, but it sometimes makes me wonder if those kind of people even exist anymore? There seems to be a lot of game players.
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INEEDLOVEFROMYOU:
Great screen name, by the way! 
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Very open and sincere... really cool... Why is it that girls find the bad guys???? well IN MY EXPERIENCES.... and don't let me generalise any groups here, but this is just in MY EXPERIENCES... girls i've dated (and others whom i've seen this happen to as well) have past relationships, or even FAMILY DYNAMICS, where the norm is to be essentially manipulated, to be abused mentally and emotionally, if not even physically... it creates a crutch, with girls stories THAT I KNOW personally (this doesn't go for all ok so don't think i'm saying it does) these girls don't feel right w/ a good guy, they feel like something is missing... there's a *spark* that's just not there with a good guy... obviously they'll never be trully happy with an a-hole, but they BELIEVE their happy when their with one, because they get mentally pushed around, just like they may have been at home... am i makeing any sence? |
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 Sorry to say it, but it seems to happen more often in life everyday. I have never cheated on a partner, but I've been cheated on a few times. The latest was by my now ex-wife of 12 years. I had no idea we were having any real problems. She would tell me how much she loved me nearly everyday. To my knowledge, we had a very good marriage. Then she started a new job and a month later she's telling me she's leaving. I just stood there in shock. I unfortunately overheard her on the phone talking with her boyfriend a few days later, telling him how much she loved him and how my boys would get used to him. I really wish I didn't hear it at all. I have never had my heart completely crushed like that. I'm still reeling from it and I know I must press on, but there are days that are more than a bit tough. Had a lot of great memories with her. I just wish I would get amnesia at times, it would hurt a lot less. I never will understand entirely how and why one person could be so cruel to another. Just my two cents. But chin up and on we go!
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Neanderthal, you put so much insight, intelligence and charm into the posts you make here. Real impressive......
 
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