aloha zwild...welcome to the mingle jungle...check out the filters you can set up to deal with age range, perhaps location, and other criteria to screen out those messages before they get to your inbox...

I see you have started participating in the forums...great!!...you get to meet a wonderful cast of characters who are witty, damn smart, and incredible fun...best of all - they are real folks (except for me of course...hahaha)...cheers...

A cast of characters...

Good one mayb. ..

I have been fortunate to have had conversations and quite a few friendships with real people here in the forums. You sir I know is one of those people who I think is a real person behind the keyboard /screen/computer. Mingle has been an outlet for me to express myself and hopefully not be judged which I know is impossible lol. Anyways opinions of people who don’t matter to me does not matter anyway. The day that I stop posting here would be the day or days that someone has finally proved to me that he is enough and that I am enough for him too. He would be keeping me too busy I won’t have time for anything else

well thank you for the suggestion help keeping to spammers away

There are also many Real people not on the mingle2 forums.

Many are here for dating and Relationships and don't want to play games and more games! Or get into conflicts on topics.

I have had messages many times from men who get affended when asked if
they are fake!

I 'm just saying hundreds of people on mingle2 and Few on Forums! And more joining daily cause it is Free.

I am though.

yes been on many paid site and most are a scam that why i came here to find friends and real folks not a bunch of bots