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you got it crystal. some of both please. while i enjoy fixing this or solving that it is much more enjoyable when the process gets shared and you start feeding off each other. tho if we're both terrified of spiders we are gonna get over run pretty quick.
what do i bring? how about the ability to build that walk in and get lost shoe closet you need? or the willingness to practice relentlessly my hugging skills and my ability to share the shower head? |
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you got it crystal. some of both please. while i enjoy fixing this or solving that it is much more enjoyable when the process gets shared and you start feeding off each other. tho if we're both terrified of spiders we are gonna get over run pretty quick. what do i bring? how about the ability to build that walk in and get lost shoe closet you need? or the willingness to practice relentlessly my hugging skills and my ability to share the shower head? My two pairs of shoes might get lonely with all that space 
Now practicing hugging skills and sharing the shower head are things I would be willing to go for 
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see then you have to fill it
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Edited by
msharmony
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Thu 02/08/18 01:51 PM
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I am just very old fashioned, God fearing, family relationship driven, loves music movies and laughter, feminine, domestic, loving, warm, silly, and intelligent.
Id hope for a gentleman who is old fashioned, God fearing, family relationship driven, loves music movies and laughter, masculine, confident, loving, warm, silly and intelligent. |
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We all have our strengths and weeknesses. Sometimes two people’s strengths and weeknesses balance in perfect harmony. Or, two weeknesses could merge into a couple who has to eat out... a LOT
While another couple’s common strengjth might turn them into the “rockstar” party hosting couple. 
What strengths and weeknesses do you feel you bring to a relationship? Would you hope your next partner shares your strengths and weeknesses or that theirs balance yours? Hi Ness, this is a great topic, thanks 
My reaction earlier with agreeing with Tom had more to do with old feelings of lacking self worth that seem to be resurfacing for some reason. Guess as life goes on, more is revealed for you to release and discard, serves no purpose because we are all worth something. I couldn't think of anything other than "just me" and a whole lot of love. Sometimes that doesn't feel like much or anything anyone would be interested in. But I'm sure there's more, lol. With strengths and weaknesses, I believe some of our greatest strengths can also be our greatest weakness... and vice versa. When it comes to a relationship, having them balance out between the two seems to be more appealing to me. One's weakness being the other's strength and vice versa. Standing together is best, but sometimes if you need to lean on the other, it's good if the other is strong where you're weak. Your topics have definitely given me food for thought and have pretty much touched on a lot of stuff I've been thinking about lately.... thank you, it's food I need for continued growth
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see then you have to fill it
Oooo, I like that idea. 
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Nothing, Nada, Zip, Zilch... I'm not going to dangle my love like an advertising banner. You either like me or you don't. I either like you or I don't. If our relationship turns to mutual love What we offer each other may not be quantifiable. But, if you need something to be offered... Here's $5 Tom, that was not at all the spirit in which this thread was posted. It’s just supposed to be something fun to talk about, like I sing in the shower and would enjoy someone to harmonize with...or two of is would be way too much caterwauling. It’s meant to be fun...unless someone particularly WANTS to post their assets. But I don’t recomend it and would feel no different than you about it. Besides Tom, you surly know Im not a pimp by now.
I suspected as much. Thing is, in M2 forums, it all comes around to issues eventually. Perhaps my response was worded a bit wrong for your intentions. See, I have been in material relationships before and they are not healthy. Gimmie, Gimmie, Gimmie. If I am interested in forming a relationship with you it's not because of what you offer but because I want to be around you. I'm at a point in my life where I don't really need anything from others. I have creativity, spontaneity and stability. For me its more of a sharing of personality than something we give each other. A commune of spirit. Anything either of us might offer is persistent to the act of offering. Something that can be withheld. A control measure. Our natural state of being is not something that can be offered or withheld. It is our defining life of existence. That is what I want to share. What a very deep and heartfelt way to think. I hope you find someone to share that with. I hooe we all do.
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We all have our strengths and weeknesses. Sometimes two people’s strengths and weeknesses balance in perfect harmony. Or, two weeknesses could merge into a couple who has to eat out... a LOT
While another couple’s common strengjth might turn them into the “rockstar” party hosting couple.
What strengths and weeknesses do you feel you bring to a relationship? Would you hope your next partner shares your strengths and weeknesses or that theirs balance yours? Hi Ness, this is a great topic, thanks
My reaction earlier with agreeing with Tom had more to do with old feelings of lacking self worth that seem to be resurfacing for some reason. Guess as life goes on, more is revealed for you to release and discard, serves no purpose because we are all worth something. I couldn't think of anything other than "just me" and a whole lot of love. Sometimes that doesn't feel like much or anything anyone would be interested in. But I'm sure there's more, lol. With strengths and weaknesses, I believe some of our greatest strengths can also be our greatest weakness... and vice versa. When it comes to a relationship, having them balance out between the two seems to be more appealing to me. One's weakness being the other's strength and vice versa. Standing together is best, but sometimes if you need to lean on the other, it's good if the other is strong where you're weak. Your topics have definitely given me food for thought and have pretty much touched on a lot of stuff I've been thinking about lately.... thank you, it's food I need for continued growth
First of all...no offense taken from anyone here. I could see right away my wording could have been more clear...and could have been taken differently.
Secondly...or should have been firstly, I think anyone can see what a big heart you have. I’ve been here such a short time and it’s very evident to me. You’re a lovely lady. We all get to have our bad days, but at the end of the bad day...you’re still a very lovely lady. 
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First of all...no offense taken from anyone here. I could see right away my wording could have been more clear...and could have been taken differently.
Secondly...or should have been firstly, I think anyone can see what a big heart you have. I’ve been here such a short time and it’s very evident to me. You’re a lovely lady. We all get to have our bad days, but at the end of the bad day...you’re still a very lovely lady.
Well now I'm crying  Thank you, that's very kind of you to say!
You're wording was fine, I have a tendency to need to lighten up some and have a little fun. I'm learning though, slowly but surely, lol. |
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Would you hope your next partner shares your strengths and weeknesses or that theirs balance yours? myself, i'm a little too introverted for my own good..i'm all to happy to just hang around the house, maybe have a few guests over now and then for dinner or card games... so, i would hope my partner could balance that weakness out some with her outgoing and more gregarious personality... when i do get that kick-in-the-butt i always have a great time.. two different people in balance = one hot couple... |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Thu 02/08/18 03:04 PM
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I do Spontaneous activities, love fine dinning, travel and Romance!
Enjoy a tall Pofessional man, financially secure, who loves to travel! |
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First of all...no offense taken from anyone here. I could see right away my wording could have been more clear...and could have been taken differently.
Secondly...or should have been firstly, I think anyone can see what a big heart you have. I’ve been here such a short time and it’s very evident to me. You’re a lovely lady. We all get to have our bad days, but at the end of the bad day...you’re still a very lovely lady.
Well now I'm crying Thank you, that's very kind of you to say!
You're wording was fine, I have a tendency to need to lighten up some and have a little fun. I'm learning though, slowly but surely, lol. Too often, we don’t let ourselves be happy. You deserve happy.
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I do Spontaneous activities, love fine dinning, travel and Romance!
Enjoy a Pofessional man, finacially secure, who loves to travel! I just like spontanious fine dining.
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Would you hope your next partner shares your strengths and weeknesses or that theirs balance yours? myself, i'm a little too introverted for my own good..i'm all to happy to just hang around the house, maybe have a few guests over now and then for dinner or card games... so, i would hope my partner could balance that weakness out some with her outgoing and more gregarious personality... when i do get that kick-in-the-butt i always have a great time.. two different people in balance = one hot couple... I like it when that happens too. It can also backfire though...when he starts to get irritated that I can’t seem to put the scissors where they belong! Lol! |
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I like it when that happens too. It can also backfire though...when he starts to get irritated that I can’t seem to put the scissors where they belong! Lol! gimme them scissors, i'll put them away... you go get dressed me and you are going out dancin'tonight
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hello
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We all have our strengths and weeknesses. Sometimes two people’s strengths and weeknesses balance in perfect harmony. Or, two weeknesses could merge into a couple who has to eat out... a LOT
While another couple’s common strengjth might turn them into the “rockstar” party hosting couple.
What strengths and weeknesses do you feel you bring to a relationship? Would you hope your next partner shares your strengths and weeknesses or that theirs balance yours? I say we are in balance with one another ... that would be cool ... |
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What can I offer? I can be an ear if he wants to talk non stop , I can smother him with hugs and kisses when he needs it and be the boss anytime he wants me to (which is the best one among the three lol) anyways he can always complement me in any way he can whichever way and I will love him more and it doesn’t take the act but just the thought of it can make me happy. If we both can make each other smile, laugh and cry at the same time then I’ve found the half of my peanut ( hope that sounds funny )
 thanks for the very interesting topic ness.
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