Why am I most often attracted to men who never look at me twice? I thought one might be receptive, and when I was going to talk to him about my interest, he brought another girl to that gathering. That nixed that chat. They are not together, but he is contemplating "going down that road" as he told a friend at tonight's gathering. So I don't think I'll mention it to him at all.

The other guy I find interesting and attractive is really really interested in a friend of mine. So much so that he leaves every gathering in a bad mood because she is always with another person. One she is not dating but is dating. That is an long story I'm not going to go into.

The end result is that I seem to like the guys that have no interest in me other than friendship and never look twice at me. Bleh.

Probably because you are a codependent. Survivor of abuse I suspect. Always *in love* with the wrong guy? Find guys always *cheat on you*? It's how you like them, it's your pathology and you wouldn't have it any other way.

Sometimes we want someone and they just keep wanting someone else. All the while, you are standing right in front of them wanting them to notice you and they just don't see you. I mean, they do see you, but they are blinded from seeing your interest.

this is too deep for my tiny little brain

Now you have me humming the song from The Wizard of Oz...If I only had a brain...Thanks a lot.

this is too deep for my tiny little brain