but in reality all those types of men are tha same men, and those women are tha same women,
most can be loving and compassionate and others can be laid back and just goin with tha flow
tha battle of sexes wont ever stop
but doesnt mean we all have a right to judge who is who and tell them wat they are, anyone can be with anyone if your put your mind to it, if you have chemistry with one who enjoys being with you, there is no doubt they wouldnt want to know you, some go for looks, others got for persona, but most of tha time everyone can agree person goes first, and when it comes to sex? why should we judge someone for how they are? especially when you want to love them or fell in in love with them, then you look more into their heart and feelings than a mere body to have such an activity with, and remember we are all humans beings, and there's someone for everyone out there
so why must we judge on shape, size, style, status, and profession?, sure we all want someone who is right for us, but should we judge others and think they are not wat you wanted
as long as you love yourself and know you can adapt to others feelings, there will always be another person wanting to be with you and spend their life with you
so have faith and dont give up!

(sorry for tha long speech heh)

i need feed back people lol

I def agree with you

hehe ty baby
i tried to sum it up all well
and yup its towards both sexes
it has always been on my mind
so it is now tha right time to say it

I agree with most of it but some times there are differences you can't over look. I believe in God and do not want to be with someone who does not believe in him..... I don't drink alot and do not want to be around a person who drinks alot.... I have been through that and do not want to be around someone who drinks alot so it depends on if the people can tolerate the differences.

well i said chemistry
as long as you work it out
and sure everyone has a difference

To a point, I agree.

Judging what is right for me, is not judging others. I've had to make judgment calls outside of intimate relationships too.

I've asked friends to stop the car so I could get out and walk, due to their erratic driving habits. I don't ride in a car that they are driving.

I've asked family to stay out of my house because of how they treated myself and my home, til they changed their behavior. That is not passing judgement on them. It is judging what I am not willing to participate in.

So, no I can not be with just anybody. In that... settling is not something I am willing to do, nor ask anyone else to do as it pertains to me.