Topic: Fear of commitment
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Thu 11/02/17 12:26 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 11/02/17 12:28 PM

I'm just happy being ignored laugh

Owww... diddums!
flowerforyou

I thought you'd gone off to hunt while us women were gathering. Typical male, being a lazy git doing nothing while us girls work our hineys off!
So put down that remote and beer, off you go, catch us a deer. I can do with some tucker tongue2

Oh, and don't be offended when you get ignored. Happens to me all the time in these forums, haha. If I was to get a pound for each time it happened, I could go on holiday within a month!

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Thu 11/02/17 12:30 PM
noway who could possible ignore you crystal with those legs and that accent?love

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Thu 11/02/17 12:30 PM
laugh
I love hunting. especially in the freezer isle, makes things very pert laugh tongue2

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Thu 11/02/17 12:31 PM

And men having this innate fear of giving up their freedom.

Or thinking they maybe can do better.

It not matching with their own inner blueprint for life. That is a real mother to deal with:
men have this blueprint of "now is time to build my career, then I want a family, then I want this and that." and a relationship is somewhere down the line too. Yet, if a woman appears during the 'career phase', he is not really open for a relationship because it doesn't match his blueprint. And he will let go, even if it is the best woman for him ever.
Women are different that way. We also have such a blueprint, but we are far more flexible.
I think this has to do with man's tendency to compartmentalize.

I’m really surprised by this answer.
You usually write some of the most intelligent answers on here. This is total rubbish.

Personally I think it’s more to do with age / maturity. I can only speak for myself, not all men as you tried to do.
I would have thought that most men’s blueprint, instinct I prefer to call it, is breed and provide for your family.

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Thu 11/02/17 12:32 PM
truer words have never been spoken mikey

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 11/02/17 12:35 PM

laugh
I love hunting. especially in the freezer isle, makes things very pert laugh tongue2

Freezer isle? Is that somewhere close to the Isle of Skye? Love to go there!!
(sozz... couldn't help myself, I used to be a teach, old habits die hard)

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Thu 11/02/17 12:35 PM

noway who could possible ignore you crystal with those legs and that accent?love

Thank you blushing
It does happen though sad

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Thu 11/02/17 12:38 PM

noway who could possible ignore you crystal with those legs and that accent?love

It was me being ignored eric, you couldn't ignore crystal, you can hear her coming from London with those wooden shoes laugh

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Thu 11/02/17 12:40 PM
thanks mikey now i have monty python stuck in my head

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 11/02/17 12:41 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž on Thu 11/02/17 12:48 PM


And men having this innate fear of giving up their freedom.

Or thinking they maybe can do better.

It not matching with their own inner blueprint for life. That is a real mother to deal with:
men have this blueprint of "now is time to build my career, then I want a family, then I want this and that." and a relationship is somewhere down the line too. Yet, if a woman appears during the 'career phase', he is not really open for a relationship because it doesn't match his blueprint. And he will let go, even if it is the best woman for him ever.
Women are different that way. We also have such a blueprint, but we are far more flexible.
I think this has to do with man's tendency to compartmentalize.

I’m really surprised by this answer.
You usually write some of the most intelligent answers on here. This is total rubbish.

Personally I think it’s more to do with age / maturity. I can only speak for myself, not all men as you tried to do.
I would have thought that most men’s blueprint, instinct I prefer to call it, is breed and provide for your family.


I think that calls for a 'thank you', only to be followed directly by an 'ouch'.
This was explained by Matthew Hussey, another charming UK man, and the way he explains it sounds totally plausible to me, otherwise I wouldn't have stated it myself, cos I don't parrot, I think tongue2
Of course it could vary from person to person, and maybe you cannot relate to it anymore? I think maybe it also hinges on age quite a lot, since mostly ppl want/need a career, status and bladibla more when they are younger than when they are older and more established in life.
(Which btw is not meant as a dig, but more of a question as to how things work)

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Thu 11/02/17 12:42 PM
laugh
The dutch are ignorable and adorable flowerforyou

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Thu 11/02/17 12:47 PM


noway who could possible ignore you crystal with those legs and that accent?love

It was me being ignored eric, you couldn't ignore crystal, you can hear her coming from London with those wooden shoes laugh

Sometimes it's high heels, stilettos... but they got steel heel tips, so you will still hear me approach... it'll just sound a tad more sexy :angel:

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Thu 11/02/17 12:49 PM

thanks mikey now i have monty python stuck in my head

Has anyone screamed "Albatross"?
Or do you want to claim your right to have a uterus? laugh

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Thu 11/02/17 12:49 PM



And men having this innate fear of giving up their freedom.

Or thinking they maybe can do better.

It not matching with their own inner blueprint for life. That is a real mother to deal with:
men have this blueprint of "now is time to build my career, then I want a family, then I want this and that." and a relationship is somewhere down the line too. Yet, if a woman appears during the 'career phase', he is not really open for a relationship because it doesn't match his blueprint. And he will let go, even if it is the best woman for him ever.
Women are different that way. We also have such a blueprint, but we are far more flexible.
I think this has to do with man's tendency to compartmentalize.

I’m really surprised by this answer.
You usually write some of the most intelligent answers on here. This is total rubbish.

Personally I think it’s more to do with age / maturity. I can only speak for myself, not all men as you tried to do.
I would have thought that most men’s blueprint, instinct I prefer to call it, is breed and provide for your family.


I think that calls for a 'thank you', only to be followed directly by an 'ouch'.
This was explained by Matthew Hussey, another charming UK man, and the way he explains it sounds totally plausible to me, otherwise I wouldn't have stated it myself, cos I don't parrot, I think tongue2
Of course it could vary from person to person, and maybe you cannot relate to it anymore? I think maybe it also hinges on age quite a lot, since mostly ppl want/need a career, status and bladibla more when they are younger than when they are older and more established in life.
(Which btw is not meant as a dig, but more of a question as to how things work)

I still think you’re the bee’s knees flowers

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Thu 11/02/17 12:51 PM
Uterus?
So, that's what's at the end of the tunnel!
I thought it was light laugh tongue2

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Thu 11/02/17 12:54 PM


thanks mikey now i have monty python stuck in my head

Has anyone screamed "Albatross"?
Or do you want to claim your right to have a uterus? laugh

nope and
nowaynoway
but now all i can hear is coconutshells clapping together like hoof beatsgrumble

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Thu 11/02/17 12:58 PM
Nee :horse::racehorse::racehorse:

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Thu 11/02/17 01:08 PM




And men having this innate fear of giving up their freedom.

Or thinking they maybe can do better.

It not matching with their own inner blueprint for life. That is a real mother to deal with:
men have this blueprint of "now is time to build my career, then I want a family, then I want this and that." and a relationship is somewhere down the line too. Yet, if a woman appears during the 'career phase', he is not really open for a relationship because it doesn't match his blueprint. And he will let go, even if it is the best woman for him ever.
Women are different that way. We also have such a blueprint, but we are far more flexible.
I think this has to do with man's tendency to compartmentalize.

I’m really surprised by this answer.
You usually write some of the most intelligent answers on here. This is total rubbish.

Personally I think it’s more to do with age / maturity. I can only speak for myself, not all men as you tried to do.
I would have thought that most men’s blueprint, instinct I prefer to call it, is breed and provide for your family.


I think that calls for a 'thank you', only to be followed directly by an 'ouch'.
This was explained by Matthew Hussey, another charming UK man, and the way he explains it sounds totally plausible to me, otherwise I wouldn't have stated it myself, cos I don't parrot, I think tongue2
Of course it could vary from person to person, and maybe you cannot relate to it anymore? I think maybe it also hinges on age quite a lot, since mostly ppl want/need a career, status and bladibla more when they are younger than when they are older and more established in life.
(Which btw is not meant as a dig, but more of a question as to how things work)

I still think you’re the bee’s knees flowers

Oww, thank you!! blushing flowerforyou

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Thu 11/02/17 01:10 PM



thanks mikey now i have monty python stuck in my head

Has anyone screamed "Albatross"?
Or do you want to claim your right to have a uterus? laugh

nope and
nowaynoway
but now all i can hear is coconutshells clapping together like hoof beatsgrumble

Oh dear... maybe another recording of me walking around on my stilettos would brighten spirits again...
Problem is, I just took them upstairs, and I'm too lazy to go get them

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Thu 11/02/17 01:12 PM

laugh
The dutch are ignorable and adorable flowerforyou

I'm still thinking about this one... I do like the last bit though. And the flowers :)