Topic: help
rahul00759's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:35 AM
how can i make a girlfreind on this site?

Wolfeyes58's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:40 AM
Let's see, you get you a ball of clay any color you choose...j/k...you don't make them...you just view the profiles in your search mode and see who you find that attracts you and email her and see what happens between the two of you.

pms64's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:40 AM
Keep looking.
Talk in the threads, put yourself out there.
Send messages, and flowerforyou flowerforyou

PMS

Giggles123's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:43 AM
Uplaod a photo!....A profile that has a photo gets 10 times more hits than one without.

nightstar's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:46 AM
helps to update profile too, like all those 'No Answer' answers are sitting there like little red flags.

but then again, you're asian, and red flags are kinda yourthing.

bigsmile

welcome to the site.
Making girlfriends is a hellofalot easier then meeting them
when you make them, you end up with a cig in your hand and a smile on your face.
Meeting them usually causes stomach cramps and an atm withdrawal.

Giggles123's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:49 AM
laugh

kai67's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:55 AM
Nightstar! That was NOT right!

Giggles123's photo
Fri 11/30/07 12:58 AM
YaY! You got a photo up...:tongue:

catchme_ifucan's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:05 AM
Hi Rahul, Welcome to the site.

If you go into "my account" then click on your city & state/providence it will give you a list of everybody in your area.

Good luck to you! :wink:

rahul00759's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:08 AM
THANX FOR THE HELP.

nightstar's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:13 AM
he he
np
welcome to the site.bigsmile


no photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:35 AM
I believe there are some couples on this site. Hopefully they will speak up and share their insight.

Here's my two cents:
Online dating is a tricky thing and I'm not a fan. I'm just here for the forums and to make new friends. The best way to get a girlfriend is to fearlessly offer the best of yourself to the world by going out there and getting to know people... in real life, not the internet.
thatplayer89 messaged me with a pretty good point: I oftentimes quote the master pickup artists but rarely share my own experiences. I'll share my story of how I met one of my ex-girlfriends:
I was at a party and noticed that no one was talking to her. She's actually STUNNINGLY HOT and I guess no guys approached her because they were intimidated by her beauty. However, I just walked up to her and started talking to her, teasing her for not socializing at a party :tongue:
We exchanged contact information and flirted with each other over AIM and myspace and stuff like that and we started setting up dates with eachother. After a good number of dates I decided that I was willing to try out a relationship with her as bf/gf cuz I liked her a lot. We saw each other at another party and I asked her out. She said no and slapped me in the face. LOL JK of course she said yes. The relationship lasted a good 16 months.
If you want to go the online route, I recommend flirting via messaging with girls who live in your area from this site. Make her comfortable with interacting with you online, tickle her senses with the text you type, and gain her trust enough for you to exchange phone numbers or something. Arrange a meeting at some point for a casual date. From there on out, online "game" no longer applies and continue on to follow the rules of regular "game."

dchatwin's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:37 AM
Wow very well put!! Where's the kudos button??? drinker

Giggles123's photo
Fri 11/30/07 01:46 AM
Hopefully guys are listening/looking!!! :heart: Awesome! Perfect!!!