Well, that would certainly make the picture different...where did you get your information from?

I went to the Illinois Legal Aid website which posted some info and also emailed a few lawyers who won't take my case but gave me the "scoop". I am going to the courthouse (Daley Center) on Tuesday to see if there is anything I can find out there at their self-help dept.

I'm hoping it all shakes out. I think the entire situation of keeping me here is a violation of my rights considering my son's father is just trying to make waves. Unfortunately, I don't know how to prove there is better than here... only because they are about the same. I'd be happier there. I'd have more help there... but because I am to yet married to my fiance, his family is technically NOT mine.
I just lost my daughter's daycare. Rates were too high. I have temp sitting until mid-feb... from there, whether I go or not, my daughter will be going to live with my in-laws... because I have no one else to watch her here.

I was put in that same position. It all depends on the state you live in. Call you court house and see what your rights are and his (if any). I was able to move do to the loop hole he had a felony and refused to do parenting classes. I haven't seen my ex-husband since 2004 neither has his two daughters age 5 and 10yrs. A family attorney or legal aide can help with advise.
Good luck and the best to you and your family.