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Topic: advice on guy/girl friendships
JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:05 PM
can a guy and a girl be good friends after they were in a relationship previously and broke up on good terms?

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Thu 11/29/07 05:06 PM
Of course....i am still friends with my ex..because we have a child together and we actually get a long BETTER than when we were together..laugh

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Thu 11/29/07 05:06 PM
yes im best friends with my x bf

canubetheone's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:07 PM
Of course i was with my ex for 10yrs an till this day cause he moved on were still friends we talk almost every weekend an we still email each other. :smile:

Twitch's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:08 PM
Sure can; I'm best friends with mine

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:09 PM
hmmm.. same here. i'm best friends with my ex...but sometimes i cant help but feel that if we are such good friends then that would make the perfect relationship..wouldnt it?

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Thu 11/29/07 05:12 PM
i feel that too sometimes but sometimes your perfect friends wont make perfect relationships your too much as friends, to make that change

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Thu 11/29/07 05:12 PM
absolutely! as long as you allow enough time to go by, and your feelings have faded i don't see why not

canubetheone's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:12 PM
well with me after 10yrs he found his first gf after 35yrs an was always up front with me toward the end of our relationship said he wanted to be with her that he still had feelings for her this month hurt a little bit would of been our 11 anniversary but you know i'm still glad i can be friends with him and now me and her a freinds too flowerforyou flowerforyou oh yeah case any one wants to know its my bday today lol

pinksugar's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:14 PM
I agree with Hawaiigurl. I get along with my ex better now that we aren't together. Actually, I can't believe we were ever together now that I look at it, but whatever. We still get along and I consider him a friend.

pinksugar's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:15 PM
Happy Birthday canubetheone!!!!!!!


JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:15 PM
k thanx so much for the advice

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Thu 11/29/07 05:15 PM
happy birthday cubto!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dragonl0ve's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:16 PM
My best friend is someone I was with. Let time to go by so feelings can fade, but as long as you are both honest, yes you can be.

There are times that I wonder why we aren't together, then I just remember that our friendship is worth a lot more to me.

IntelligentLady's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:17 PM
Absolutely....my best male friend is a man I dated almost 10 years ago....now we protect each other by offering advice, comfort each other when we hurt and are there for each other when things are not going well despite living 2 hours away.....I've always said were I ever to marry again this friend would walk me down the aisle...

JasmineInglewood's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:17 PM
and happy bday canubetheone happy

Totage's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:17 PM
Of course exes can be friends. I'm on good terms with all of my exes. Well, I haven't talked to them since we broke up, but if I saw them, I would say hi and ask how they were doing.

canubetheone's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:17 PM
thanks ty all :) flowerforyou flowerforyou an yep if ur relationship ended well then a guy an girl can be friends if not then don't bother :)

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Thu 11/29/07 05:18 PM
Not gonna do it......
wouldnt be prudent....
not at this juncture.......








































oh......ok maybe it can happen........huh

Jill298's photo
Thu 11/29/07 05:18 PM
sometimes people make better friends than they did bf/gf

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