hi there

my problem is that my 'EX' keeps adding my family to her friendslist from other sites and this really p*sses me off. I could see if we were still together. I dont know what she is trying to do. am I just over reacting? I dont go and her family and friends to my lists,so I don't know. i am just confused.


plz help

who cares.... just because you dont sleep in hte same bed anymore means you cant have the same friends...wtf... I mean honestly get real

honestly... she is probably doin it TO piss you off lol... she knows its gonna bother you... there are two things you can do.. ignore her... so her plan doesn't work... or talk to her about it ... i mean i don't know how your break up was... but if you are still on decent terms just tell her its weird for you

yes, you are over-reacting. she either enjoys your fam. or... she is trying to piss you off, and is exceeding quite well. lol! actually, she prob. misses you and this is her way of dealing with it.

If it bothers you that much ask her to stop, but in doing that, you risk letting her know that it is bothering you... If that is her goal, she will win.
I personally don't think it's that big of a deal. Maybe she thinks you guys are friends even though you aren't together? Or maybe that she is still friends with your family? What does your family think about it?

Just ignore it...
If you don't let it bother you- your ex will probbley quit
doing it. Or your ex is lonely and adding people that they are familuar with...
I know it feels like someone one is'nt being loyal to you...
but let it go.

"It is better for a man to live on the corner of his roof than to live with a contentious woman"- bible quote

Womens emotions are always magnified compared to a mans, including their bitterness, hence feeding the need for vengence.

No girls, not all women are bitter. See i have to even put a disclaimer on this post cuz the exageration spills over to assumptions too. And you know some one will.

I'm wondering why his family is agreeing to be added....or is it an automatic add? I mean with family it is family and that is where the line does pretty much get drawn as opposed to mutual friends. There is also a difference between hacking someone off and cyberstalking. I'd question where the loyalties lie and request the family block her. If she continues by making new accounts report her. I had a friend that had a cyberstalking incident turn into a real life event and he ended up in prison. Sometimes people aren't just trying to hack you off. Not trying to scare anyone but I'd advise caution to prevent an escalation.

If you broke up on good termsa and her and your family on still on good terms, what's the problem? I would say ignore her, and talk to your family if it bothers you, let them know how you feel. I'm not saying it's their fault or they are to blame, but maybe if they understand how you feel, they will not talk to her. Like the others said, she could be doing it to piss you off, or maybe she just wants tp still be friends with you and your family.

I do not see a problem, unless you broke up badly and the family was involved. Other than that, whats the prob?
Sometimes family can be friends even though you can't.
I have my sons ex on my "my space". No problem with him or his wife. We share photos and talk once in awhile.

If she is friends with some of your family members, then it should not bother you. It is their relationship, not yours, right?

Ask your family if they are chatting, or on each others friends list. If they are and have no problem with it, then it's all good.

I thought a friends list had to be asked for and then accepted?
Kat

When my mom and dad broke up my mom never went to visit my dad's family and my grandmother my dad's mom went to my mom and asked waht was wrong. My grandmother told my mom that she broke up with my dad she didn't break up with her family. With that being said have you askede your family if they want to be friends with your ex. That could be it or your ex is just doing to tick you off.

dont do anything stupid and keep the law on your side. this may result in her doing more extreme things so know that you have the option of a restraining order. consult a lawyer.