Eyes first, cleavege second. interchangable depending on the situation.
We guys try not to stare, but, well, we're guys.

This one is a touchy subject (no pun intended). I'm not even a "breast man". But it amazes me when a woman wears something that enhances thier breasts, they show a TON of cleavage, but then have the nerve to complain "why do the guys just look at by boobs?".

I mean COME ON!!! You're getting breast enlargement, wearing a top that shows 49.8% of them and you WONDER WHY a man just looks at them? Maybe you should have used that breast enhancement money to purchase a few IQ points. At least past the IQ of a box of rocks! LOL

Men are VISUAL creatures from the start. Visual gets our FIRST attention.

So if you don;t want people st stare, then stop shoving them in thier faces! LOL

Men can clear their own confusion by doing this:

If you see a woman who's showing off her cleavage, look straight at it, then look at her face and say "You're hot." She will say "Thank you." Women like compliments and they know that their cleavage elicits them.

by the way...unless youre actually pretty advanced with pickup, youre going to want to end the conversation there because you won't get anywhere past a sincere thanks.

Ignore em maybe they will show more.

That's why all my shirts are at least one size too large. I hate being stared at.

I leave things to the imagination. If I am showing off my shoulders, the rest of me is covered. Wearing a skirt that skims smoothly across my curves, then the shirt will not be as form fitting..

For me, it is all about balance.

They will glance wheither you are showing anything or not!

my friend... you are too funny!!!

I was in this awkward position monday night with this man whom I work for on occasion, he contracts me to do some pretty intensive things at his office. Right after he offered me this huge job, he said something inappropriate to me.

When I told one of my best male friends about it, his first question was how much boob were you showing... I had been wearing my most revealing shirt that night. He had a point. If we flaunt it, we have to expect it!