plenty of guano? very impressive indeed

to impress a girl is how a man pulls up a chair for her, open a door to any entrance/exit, offer a cap when its too hot, give a jacket when its cold, carry her when she sprains her ankle, do the dishes, do the laundry...oh wait im getting carried away

No you're not...

I've actually had women get offended because I opened and or held a door for them. That won't deter me from continuing to do it though.

This is the very reason why I said what I said in my last post. I've come across MANY women like this. I've even been fussed out a few times for opening doors, pulling up chairs, etc. I'm an old fashion kinda guy. I was raised to be that way. But many women don't seem to be impressed by that anymore. So, it seems to me the best way to impress a woman nowadays is to set yourself apart from the rest.

The only way that I see now for a man to set himself apart from the rest, The biggest complaint I've been told, and learned for myself, too many men push too hard for sex. Too many horny toads. If you want to impress a woman, it's not so much about the old fashion ways anymore. (or the size of your wing-wang ) It's more about being different than the others. Setting yourself apart and letting her be impressed with you. The other stuff, like flowers or a good wine, let them come later. A lot of women think that men who come at them early on with wine and flowers (or stuff like that) are just trying to woo there way into her pants.

I'm not saying it's this way every time. Just more times than some folks think.

women now look down on chivalry ??? how would we know what sets good men apart from the bad ones? well initially at least. i know it takes time to get to know the man behind the gentleman, but then these men are the ones worthy to get to know.

I agree ss, I have seen what Charles and Stu talk about, women getting offended when they try to be a gentleman. I believe it has a lot to do with the feminist movement in this country, we seem to have gone from one extreme to another in trying to assert our Independence.

I admire a man who opens the door for me, and I let them. I used to wish I had been born in a different era when chivalry didn't appear to be dead, but I see evidence a lot of times that it's not, it's still there. I've seen some of the frustration in them too when they try to be a gentleman, only to have their attempts stomped on.

I agree with you that those are the ones worthy of getting to know.

and i do think we were both born in the same era dear

Yes we were, I meant back in the days when there were knights, or maybe the days of Casablanca

I'm cool though with our era

lets just not let anyone get access to the chains and dungeons and feet cuffs coz a lot em here has that wild knight imagination lol. i think casablanca is a better plot although i confess i haven’t seen it

i wonder what era was the peak time when men where very eager to impress women

ok now that all the psycho babble has passed. in the spirit of how it was asked.

yes i have been hit with the clue by 4 and i know she's interested. i have paid enough attention to know the taboos and her interests. and she's laughed at my cheesy pick up line and said yes.

so i pick her up for the leaf peeping trip over thatway and just happen to bump into the quaint old book store to go rummaging around in. and notice some of her favorite types and tease the corny stuff we both think is ewwwww. and of course the trip home will stumble across the mom and pop restaurant that just happens to serve her favorite kind of food.

disclaimer--- all details subject to revision based on common interests

Definitely, no dungeons ir those other things.

I haven't seen it either, other than little clips....it does seem more suited for the two of us.

im getting the feeling that this happened already and that you left with a good impression

To my beautiful place.

good luck hope she finds it beautiful too