Either are good. As long as you sound genuine when you say them. When you compliment on things like style, its not as cliche as eyes, so it sounds more creative...like you really mean it. Probably just depends on the girl though. Some girls just love to be complimented, others probably think you're just giving them a line.

just say hi and then let that take the conversation to the next level like an introduction if she doesnt respond then move on she is not interested.

Oh I have one!

Well okay.. this one time, I used to work with this hot guy, and I was leaving for college so I went over to work and told him "Let's make some memories" and directed him to the back room. Told him to take off his shirt...

When he stood before me with his mouth wide open, not knowing what the hell to say, he took off his shirt, and I then pulled out a camera!

Is that a pick up line or what! :) Okay maybe a little cheesy but I bet it made an impression.. and if that doesn't work, just stick with saying hi. Actually girls might think you're a rapist if you try my tactics.

That's one of the meanest things I've ever heard.

And yes not the kind of thing we guys can pull off unless we want a stern lecture in front of a judge.

Nice guys dont succeed at his method because they tend not to succeed at... well... anything. im sorry its the truth. in general, that is. If a man lacks confidence and lets everyone just walk all over him, essentially becoming a doormat, how would he ever get up?

The point is not becoming arrogant, but confident. I have my own qualms with Mystery Method that relate to yours; I understand where youre coming from, but the fact of the matter is that the method works. It's almost as if women are pissed off that the Mystery Methods reveals the fact that women are attracted to confidence that oftentimes comes off as arrogance, stripping away the social masks that women comfortably hide behind ("i like nice guys" vs "i respond sexually to 'jerks'") and potentially giving them a "bad" name.

But it's not about being arrogant or a jerk. It's about not being afraid to really be yourself and to be PROUD of who you are, and to overcome shyness by freely sharing yourself with other people. OF COURSE Mystery is going to come off as arrogant... he is one of the top notch innovators in the Pickup Artist community and is worshipped by many men all around the world. In a sense he has a right to be proud of his accomplishments. Before he developed the M3 model, which took him 14 years to create, there wasn't really any specific outer-game guideline to pickup that didn't involve more manipulative methods of hypnosis and neurolinguistic programming. He came up with something new that turned the PUA community upside-down.

As for geektothetenth...hey man if you are confident in your ability to attract "the one" to settle down with, more power to ya. respect. However, an mPUA called Jlaix emphasizes that if you want to be able to attract that one girl, youre going to have to know how to attract EVERY girl... it's vital to know and understand women and social dynamics as a man in today's society. If you don't wanna take this advice that's fine by me; do what you wanna do, but if you want it it's right here. More options for you! I'm here to OFFER what I know, not to shove it down anyone's throats.

Hmmmm....Has anyone ever heard of just being yourself and NOT thinking ahead...trying to impress....and thinking too much of what you should or shouldn't say?!!...
I mean, what's the harm on just being yourself without trying to impress someone you are attracted to?...I guess I'm just a bit "off" on that subject....Just be!!....
I find that when you don't try so hard things have a way of unfolding on there own free will and eventually it works out..or then again it may not, then you'll know it just wasn't meant to be!!!...

easier said then done I know!..Practice Practice Practice..

What is the name of this website?

Well, my favorite opening line is "I was just wondering what a guy like me would need to say to a girl like you, in a bar not unlike this one, to earn a few minutes of her time."

Just kidding.

Pick up lines are all well and good if you still think life revolves solely around the number of people you sleep with. But if you're looking for the real thing, just start with a friendly gesture and a kind hello.

take it slow say hi how ya doing talk for a bit build a conversation.....<never know ya may not click like u thought u would> but if u do enjoy the conversation... than ask do u wanna hang out sometime or go to coffee etc whatever u want to do but remember honestly i think most women want to be friends first.... if it goes good ask for a second and leave it at that...good luck!!!

That was cute Sharpie........

"Hi" always works!

Relax and be down to earth. Compliments are great, if they are meant with sincerity. Fakeness sucks.

responding to a stupid question---------------what??

"Hi" is regarded as the "universal opener" and has the potential to be very powerful! This is a good example of the concept that says it doesn't matter what you say, but how you say it.
I was actually using "Hi" a lot last night on the dancefloor and outside of the bar. When I said it, I always said it with a lot of fun energy and a smile. I got mostly good responses and the worst that happened was the girl saying hi back and just kept walking because she was looking for her friends or getting a drink.
Outside of the bar was better because I wasn't competing with the high energy of the loud-ass music. This one very pretty girl, obviously an upperclassman, said Hi back to me with a smile and a very high energy. This is the expected response - for my energy to bounce right back to reciprocate a very positive social interaction. I established "kino" by touching her shoulder and I praised her for having good energy (when in reality it was just my own energy mirrored right back at me) and she responded with a full ear-to-ear smile. I wish I could have talked to her more but unfortunately my friends and I were heading out when I opened her.