I'm serious. What does todays "modern woman" have to offer me?

::crickets::

But we have so much love to give! Uh huh. Is that love lasting or like my last relation**** where it was love until the next best thing that amused you more came along and you ran off with him at a moments notice?

Lack of education? Hmm no thanx. Lack of experience? But I'm willing to learn! Uh no thanx.

You seem a little bitter biker....

A giant pile of self disrespect? How can you gals do some of the stuff ya do and then pat yourself on the back with faux self affirmation and look at yourself in the mirror? I uh drown my kid in the bathtub because I'm a methmom but I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and dog gonnit people like me. Uh and not everybody loves raymond either.

Biker, not all women are like the ones you have dated....try going out of your comfort zone and go to different places and you may find a different class of women all together.

I'm not bitter. And I'm not seeking pity. Just trying to understand a question that I already know the answer to by american womens actions. They speak volumes. Look deeper. Educate yourself.

well, some have standards

Laughing at Longhairbiker, and probably shouldn't be.

I'm still older than you, and even I don't get the 'hard to get' thing anymore. Back in my day, it meant you weren't readily available every time he called and didn't put out quickly.

These days..... who cares? I'm in it for what *I* want! Which, as longhairbiker keeps trying to get somebody to admit, is SEX. I can take care of myself financially, I don't want anybody else raising my kids, I'll finish that job myself, thankyouverymuch. I don't even WANT another man up under my roof until I'm done with that job. Until then, I'm looking for Mr. Rebound, or Mr. RightNow or Mr. KnowsWhatToDo.

Before the SEX though.... the mind does have to engage.

and can offer quality distraction from your self imposed misery

Have you tried outside your own country then biker???

I met the psycho convicted felon that killed my dog and tried to burn my house down at a community fair. She portrayed herself totally different than what she really was or what the voices in her head told her she was or what the police files (not report, but files) stated she was. Its been a year since this occurred. The restraining order just expired.

well, that one sounds like a bad episode

must say though my psychiatric history has only enhanced the mutual enjoyment of my relationships

as far as hard to get goes

i think it's an outmoded uh mode

access is good, ppl are good, who's the time

be friends, be cool, see what happens

we should all be a little hard to get on the internet

No really I'm not bitter. Quit laughing. And I'm not scared. I still date if you can believe it. And I'm not just out for sex. I got money and time and could buy sex. Sorry sometimes I have class, culture, and taste. I'm not playing hard to get. I'm looking for freinds. Not freinds with benefits or freinds with sex or freinds who assume they are your wife and move in and take over. But women don't think that way. Heeeeerrrreeee we go!!!............

::straps in::

they phoned from outter space and said

must be friends

ribbit

Why do women want "instant" relationships? I really don't know. Why don't they really want to get to know a person before commiting? I've had women dump me after casual dating after a month thinking I won't commit. I've had women tell me after two dinner dates "whether you like it or not you're in a relationship with me buddy and your my freaking boyfreind!" ok. And how does it feel when your "freaking boyfreind" freaks and changes his phone number and doesn't answer his door?

lmaooooooooooo biker!!! Quit playing hard to get!!!