Good evening my lovely people of mingle to as usual shout out to my Deutschlanders out there." Hallo M2, Shreit Zu Meinem Deutchen Volk" means shout out to my German people for the world...lol. Well, I haven't done a dating forum in a while so I do one now. America, when you hear the phrase " You Can't Turn A Lady Of The Night A House Wife" Is that any truth to that? In the dating world is it important that a woman or guy can make there money in the adult entertainment world and still maintain a good position in love? Would it bother you to know your lover is exotic dancing, porn star, or an escort? Is that cheating? We all heard mixed reactions to that. But I'm curious on what the world thinks? Can we talk about it? My take is well....I think in some ways it can be a problem only for the fact he or she may not be emotionally involved, & its a job like any other profession. But you exposing what's should be for me & my eyes only. I'm secure within myself 1000% but I'm a normal guy that thinks she or he is better & a lot smarter to go that route. I'm a lot of ways some may say " Oh...EyeAm are you judging them? In a way maybe. Ask yourself this, can your adult entertainer can you bring them to meet your mom? What if my work colleagues seen you at work? HHmmmm...Maybe you are a supporter of " The Nightlife". You not bothered of what your mate does as long the money is coming in. So America, let's get right into it...

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EyeAmyourHost39

You too!

EyeAmYourHost39,

America, feel me for a minute, when I was in my early 20's, I liked the strip clubs like the gentlemen's clubs. Just like any young guy the booty and the dollars was the fun. But as I grew older and I have a lovely girlfriend I call my wife, she used to dance exotically. I was able to not even let it been a issue. I know she's a good girl now, and we have high hopes for each other. Now if you was ask me if she wanted to dance or do porn, I would have some concerns but hopefully I would give her own choice in the matter. If she was to dance today I'm selfish when it comes to my girl. No man or woman should lusting let alone put dollars in her cherry thongs but me. I know its a just a job to some but I guess it something really need to be discuss between two parties. One Hand don't let insecurities cause a wedge in your happiness but then on the other hand I guess maybe I would feel some type of way at first & if she doesn't give me any reason to doubt what she does I may get past it. Thank god I do have a good girl and she left that profession way before I met her so its nothing to me. I have a guy in Miami that's a club promoter & he tells me the boyfriends of some of the hottest stripper in Miami flip out once they find out what they girls into. I see it like its not the club job to inform the guys its the communication among the couple.

IntegrityIs 1rst,


Hey Buddy yeah , yeah me too,.......what's your take on this?

Well she's beautiful I tell ya!

Your talking about whores and whoremongers. That is not compatable with Marriage or fidelity. Just sayin'. Thhat's like asking a alcohilic to drink but don't get drunk. Or a crack whore to do a line but don't smoke crack. Once she is that way she's not going to ever be te same. Well that means sex is good right? Well... actually NO! Crack is not good neither is whoreing around.

Good advice thanks

DateGirls,

Welcome back, well I think its maybe some truth in your words when it comes to the phrase " Turn a whore into a wife" term. I know a few females that work at hooters as a exotic waitress. On a lower scale it's not stripping or porn but they get big tips to have a busty chest and a tight waistline. These men are usually sports guys that want to cop a feel on there breast, or do the childish thing and keep dropping silverware for then to have to keep bending over, and the girls do there jobs but one particular girl tells me she hate to show face to the creeps.

DateGirls,


As going back to your comment I guess I look at it like a joke, about crack,..... you do realize crack & cocaine is not treated equal in this country? Whitney was right " Crack is wack...." Cocaine , powder we talking was a rich man's high. Cats in the lower class couldn't afford to buy it so they found a way to cheeping the price and give you a ultra high at the same time. Once it hit the major cities it spread like wildfire. But let me get back to the point of my dating, sorry I took a left turn. When I was younger I wonder what it would it be like to date a " Girl gone wild type of girl"?

Hi Eyeam. :
I dont think I am secure enough to cope with other women fondling my mate even if he is only allowing it for money.

I think I probably would try to help him find an alternative source of income

Peggy122

First your new picture you look stunningly beautiful. You go Angela Bassett....lol. Second i totally agree with you. I mean again im totally secure with who i am but when it comes to a profession where the world or men in my case, well im like you i dont want strange guys lusting after my womans unmentionables.....lol.

Peggy122

First your new picture you look stunningly beautiful. You go Angela Bassett....lol. Second i totally agree with you. I mean again im totally secure with who i am but when it comes to a profession where the world or men in my case, well im like you i dont want strange guys lusting after my womans unmentionables.....lol.

EyeAmYourHost39

I think its a hard brew to swollow. Ladies honestly if your man came home and told you i have an awesome job making bookoo money and plenty of room for opportunity but oh yeah by the way i do soft porn or i strip at Atlanta's hottest strip joint Magic City. Would you be able to be secure enough to say i can handle it .

Thanks for the compliment EyeAm

This is a taboo topic to say the least. I think thats why the open relationship and cheating threads generate so much heated discussion even though the world has become open minded to so many other controversial things. Although there are exceptions to the rule, most people , including myself, still feel uncomfortable with the idea of others being sexual with the person they love

Young men in 18 struggling with erection dysfunctional issues shown skyrocket increases . Thanks for porn stars , your contribution is the main effect on men' health .

i'd have to say that as long as she was in a no touch segment of the trade i could prolly be ok with it

I once dated a stripper all I can say is.
You can take the stripper away from the pole but you can't take the pull away from the stripper.. to be a stripper..lol. true story

Sometimes I really miss that.. stripper..
Mmmhhmm... just sometimes..
Mostly when I see a show where fireman slide down the fireman pole.. or any show that has .. strippers in it...

Funny what the Mind hangs on to

Peggy122

Welcome back, you right open relationships usually dont end well. Like you mentioned theres always a exception to that right but i think its very needed to talk about taboo subjects such as this. Now Peggy i know personally a few exotic dancers and 3 low level porn stars. My exotic dancer friends say its just a job, they use dancing as a money maker to get where they want to go. Same as my porn star friends, they have high hopes to bigger opportunities. Now playing gods advocate for a minute its a different once people developed relationships it can be difficult you know. It will test your security for sure

Peggy122

Welcome back, you right open relationships usually dont end well. Like you mentioned theres always a exception to that right but i think its very needed to talk about taboo subjects such as this. Now Peggy i know personally a few exotic dancers and 3 low level porn stars. My exotic dancer friends say its just a job, they use dancing as a money maker to get where they want to go. Same as my porn star friends, they have high hopes to bigger opportunities. Now playing gods advocate for a minute its a different once people developed relationships it can be difficult you know. It will test your security for sure

I feel that maybe this topic is more about the stigmas attached to the sex industry, and which stigmas society is more accepting of.

Is work in the sex industry( in all its various forms) more sanctioned in society's eyes if it doesn't involve genital contact? ... or if it involves motives of taking care of children , paying student loans or using it as a stepping stone to non sexual enterprise, (as opposed to motives involving the glamor and fringe benefits of the industry)?

What about the thousands of people out there who marry individuals STRICTLY to live off of their income or who sleep with their bosses STRICTLY for promotions ? Is that a glorified form of sex work? And does it have the negative stigma that other types of sex work possess?

No matter what the answers are to the questions above, many might agree that any form of sex work is a portal to unnecessary temptation or potential emotional or physical infidelity towards their committed partner, which many people dont want.