why am I so scared to love a guy.. I feel like all of them just want sex.

That is because they all do.
Eventually.

That is because they all do.
Eventually.


Very true!

actually you're right,but not all,there must be a good man out there is a question of time.

hahahha

Its nature to be intimate,,but maybe you havent met a guy that gives you respect and to know to keep his hands to himself. These guys are scumbags.

Dont worry. You'll find a great guy I am sure of it!

Some just want to be nice and get to know a person first.



Do you know why I read the newspaper? 99.9% of it is crap. I just want to read that one real column at least once a month. ha

love is a scary thing that we want to feel over and over again because it makes us feel good. and to men its a totally different level/idea. the best way to not be afraid IMO would be to think of falling in love as a learning and not a losing scenario when it has to end. then love again

@scepicalsoulmate,,,love is not scary. its an adventure that has to be shared and developed and enjoyed.

there are not levels but one which is the question all ask "Can this work?".

it has nothing to do with sex or likes/dislikes. Its about understanding and adapting to your "Soul Mate".

Kind of get it?


I just let another sappy me go on this site, but all I say here is actually pretty much me. Why would I lie to someone that I will never meet. Thats a bit goofy and I already stated that anyone can ask me anything within reason or send a message and I will answer it as long as I know your a real person and honest.

Very simple. Smile ok. Your guy is right around the corner and you may not even know it.



Have a great night!

hello mui i kinda get it and the thought of "can this work?" has a lot to do with my profile name i would say love is scary because its like riding a roller coaster where you dont know when the next curve or dip or high climb is going to be and thats where it is an adventure too. knowing that there is the unknown but we still go through with it is very brave and your post just shows youre one of those people.

.. pussycat pussycat
. What's up pussycat..lol

Once again I will let my sappy self of reality out....again.

Love is NOT a roller coaster with your partner hun. You need to get out of that relationship fast if it is. Very Bad.

There should be no emotions to oscillate with,,,ok. Thats chaos to me.

I dont do chaos....I do quiet. You will meet that one long term guy thats make you feel great....in a year...5 years...ten...or even if it dies overall.

10 great years with a fantastic woman is better then anything to me.

Find a guy that cares for you. Just dont be mean as the years pass. Learn and adapt. Its hard for some women out of my experience but Im gonna find her. Im getting too old. I have to find that one last gal that is just right. I have faith that I will and can share my hugs and cuddle at night in the cold.

For a single guy a year+ is a long time, but I think a good guy can wait and patience will persevere over time.

Just me. Have a great day. Heres a happy for you.

hey sappy guy ive got nothing else to say just we all get what we deserve ... good luck to you sir and in not so many words i think you wished that to me too. thanks

^^^said the fearless kitty cat lol

Yes I did SSM,,Dont worry. Just be you and I wish you all the best. Despite my remarks that may be attributed to sarcasm and some might not agree with I do hope we all find that one special partner that is perfect for us.

Good luck on your journey.

she wont be far away

She may already be too far away,,,maybe? Don't know?

its ok to be scared but do not let it stop you for finding the right guy aja!!

I love to be scared and thrilled. Thats why when I go to Darien I give the guy $50 to get the front seat and get at least 3 rides in a row.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3mL5CPasDk

Yeah,,I have been on tons of roller coasters...this IS NYs fastest,,and maybe the fastest on the East Coast that I have been on.

Love them!

Love is a scary pursuit especially you invest so much into relationship or I think I do just to realize first part of relationship was blindly creating that life society said you need with job kids stuff do the dream but then life settles and your suddenly swear your not the person you were sure of as that teenager and both are coping thru with the routine of life and if the lie is seen the whole thing comes down finally passion in of anger divorce as attack point figure and first time really show the fire. That's wbu I think love is great idea and respect for a purpose or part is ok love can't be expected or sougtt it's so rare I think and might not happen especially when most just don't seem to have that passion the fight for what's important we compromise for peaceful resolve settle out of necessity loose all the animal you had even if only partly had. There's a lot of strong temper or passive complaining all to scare on what's able to be donr.biggrst reason I mocked earlier about discussing fear or love and advice to find it. Who honestly knows what they should look for or he'll what theyd do with it. But of course lie to self will find it instead encourage your mind your ok with our love or partner so when get someone appreciate the journey not pass responsibility to get lol stop that rant I hate marriage and love is amazing I just question most to purse or be able to create it. Cux I think a creation of events . My wife and I had the tightest bond growing up in similar bad homes and shortly after grad I'm settled in a life I thought I needed and she and I weren't fighting same thing she let all drone for anything I became resentful angry at everyone then to stubborn to find clarity I inverted to drive into something work all time but after so long all that effort she feels I didn't let her grow I didn't think the passions she'd fine were real or just shi t me upboth blaming parents each other the dog I now accept so does she we bonded when we had to buy in peace time we different versions of a explosive combo and we almost blew up lucky we just got mangled and all that divorce crsp not mad at her doesn't mean it's ok and I sont know her role just lot my need to vary baggage