It seems every time i meet a girl and we start talking and start seeing each other just for them to tell me we should just be friend's. Am I attractive that is the question. Or is it me or am I doing something wrong. I just don't know anymore on what to do. Should I keep the hope or should I just give up.

could be the terminator glasses

Yep! Give up!

No, just pay close attention to what gets them interested in you. Is it that they want to talk about themselves? or do they want to be taught something, or do they love to hear your funny stories.

Remember this: Woman change though so one season they are loving the funny guy and then the next season they are wanting to be with a rocker motorcycle type, then the next they want Mr. Rogers..... it changes and ya gotta roll with them.

Lastly, leave them wanting more.... leave when you peak and they will say oh don't go.... then you say I'll catch you tomorrow and keep their interest. I'm tellin' ya it is one way to keep their interest for welll.... I've gone up to 7 years. Ha Ha!

dont give up bro!
dont feel like this

those girls are just not worth it
dont ever let a girl like dat get to you
when they really like you
they will then start bothering you

if they dont see you as more
and just a friend
you ask them why just a friend
they will never have a proper answer to it
cause it's a lie

and dat she was already a friend to you anyways
unless she tells you straight up she just not wanting to be with anyone
then she just wants to be single
so dont let it get to you bro!
if i can find these girls
you can too!

ahaha i like wat you say lol
and it makes sense too
seriously we must not waste our times on women who dont know wat they want

ugh

I've responded to several of these same exact kinds of threads. Read them, Mr. Nice Guy. I actually provide an answer to how you can attract women so that they can see you as more than just a friend. Also, my friend lovesongsweetie posted some useful stuff, like here: http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/52237

ya need to have some Rico Suave lessons.......

I'm the rocker motorcycle type thank you. And I don't date immature, undecided, selfish women if I can help it no matter how good looking they are. Don't lower your standards. Hope that helps.

ANYMORE BIKER???

How do you even know until you start dating them?

I'm with ya on the looks. I've turned away drop dead gorgeous cause they were crazy. Actually felt good and I have no regrets for it cause they mess with yo mind. Even if the sex is good you gotta run sometimes. Don't look back.

Keep your standards low.... you'll meet more women that way.

yea man girl says no
then ignore em
when they find out wat they lost they could of have
they crawl back
and dats when you say not only no, but they dont deserve you
and when a girl even tells dat to their face
dat's when you know you got a girl who actualy there for you
if i got girls who actually got my back and tell me every day
DONT CHANGE NO MATTER WAT OTHER GIRLS OR GUYS SAY

dont ever lose dat sweetness
an i dont
so dont change at all bro
and dont give up

I have kept my standards low for years......keeps the door open for all the liars, cheats, sociopaths, narcissists, etc. But,hey, at least there are plenty to choose from. In fact, seems to be a neverending supply. Stellar advice, U Wanna. Way to make yourself a poster boy for "Don't let this happen to you" on the front of STD prevention brochures.

Caris, I am trying hard, but it is almost impossible to decipher the language you speak.....were you just singing the song "Oh, don't go changin' to try and please me".......(who is that song by)?

lily i like how you think
dat's kinda hot lol

Lily, Billy Joel

Some men assume women change what they want in a man daily and this just isn't so. As a woman who has dated biker types (because I've loved bikes since I was a teenager), of varying degrees, they aren't always bad people, first and foremost. But I wouldn't ever, ever date a Mr. Rogers type. This isn't to say that I haven't dated outside of the "biker type" personality, because I have. If these men, who think they know women (and don't) would stop to think...they might realize a woman is attracted to a man because of his hobbies. Years ago, my older sister dated a musician in a band, but she didn't marry him. (He was cool, though, and I wish she would have.) If a woman doesn't date men from different walks of life, she will never find out who she gets along best with.

I once dated a girl because she ripped hte mirror off my truck

Ok...I don't see how that could be REMOTELY attractive???

Maybe he likes to get PHYSICAL.

friends is not bad
it should mean that she wants to take things slower than usual
it cant be all bad see where it goes