Boys Ask if you can be his girl ?
if you say Yes , theyre so happy ..
couple of times dated you ..
when it come to the point that you give it all , unfortunately they will leave you ..
boys , why ??
is it because im a mom , so you think that i am an easy girl . grr ,
i hate boys !

There's a big difference between boys and men. Try dating men.

I would hate to be a young person today. i dont get all bad tattoos and piercings. Dont sleep with a guy fast. I would never sleep with anyone I did not know. Minimal 6-8 months to see if we get along.

I can see how some younger girls like older guys. Young girls talk to me all the time. They think im lying about my age because I act young and dont have a fat beer belly like many guys my age.

Try dating someone a bit older who is respectful especially when it oomes to intimacy. Older guys want a good friend first. Not a fast romp in the room. At least I dont. I may act goofy online, but in real life when I am with my gal im all about the hand holding and cuddling. I care more about making my gal feel comfortable above anything. I know it sounds cheesy but its really how I am. Im a pretty boring dude that likes road trips, museums, etc.

You will find a good guy who finds hand holding and hugs during football sexy. You look young and have plenty of time. Your a nice looking young gal. Dont fret it. When I met my ex I knew her for about 1+ year before I even kissed her. We just hugged and got to know each other and we became friends first.

Not all boys are the same some men behave and act like boys the only difference here is based on the initial motive behind the entering into the relationship. Some boys are matured enough to take up responsibilities like some good men do others behave childish based on the maturity level of their partner.
for instance if your are a lady in a relationship with a guy and you behave like a girl towards him then you give him the opportunity to do same.

The fact that you are on this site tells me that you do NOT hate boys, right?

Many men never grow up and can be as trashy as a female. If all a person cares about is how fast to get in bed it will never work.

I dated a women for 2 years and never slept with her. She couldnt because her uncle terrorized her as a child and I dealt with it because she was a great woman to be with. We did everything that a couple does but we never had sex, and I had to show her how to kiss. She did not know intimacy and could not get close to a man. I respected her space, but after 2 years I had to let her go. She begged me to stay and would try it, but I said no. It was sex for possibly the wrong reason and I told her that.

I do speak to her on occasion and she lives all alone. It makes me feel bad what happened to her but she is a broken woman as sweet as she is.

A man has to respect a woman and a woman cant be a tramp. No man wants to date trash. I an count the woman I have been with on one hand and Im a middle aged guy. Can you? I want to know the average amount of people a young person(male/female) has been with today. Im sure it would make me go YUCK if you need both hands to count.

I suppose when we are hurt we have a tendency to stereotype,but let's face the facts ..in all genders there are people from all walks of life. Some are compatible to our likes and needs,while others not so much with time and maybe just a little luck we find that one who is conducive.

No one said that it would be easy or that there wouldn't be heartache along the way ..it usually comes with the territory sad to say,but you go on .why basically what choice is there..you dust yourself off dry the tears and give it another go ..time will help to heal but it will take time until then ..hold those little ones just a little closer and take care. ...

So you're telling us you're a saint, while tarring all of today's young people with the same brush.

There are some great young people about.

Self praise is no recommendation.

First of, find a man not a boy...
Second, you don't have sex until there have been enough truly emotionally bonding moments.
That means there isn't a default time when you should or shouldn't get intimate. Can be after a few dates, can take a few months. If he's not willing to wait, move on to the next. If a man is truly interested you can tell him "Sorry, I'm not the kind of girl that moves this fast!" he will respect that. Sure he'll want to get in your pants, but he'll wait. Within reason of course.
You do flirt, are playful, so you do show him you are sexual, just that you aren't all that easy. Not to play hard to get (don't do that) but to protect yourself from being used for sex only.

Lovely, I think if you were a true man then either you wouldn't have taken the relationship so far or you would still be with her, sounds selfish on your part to me!

Not selfish at all scooby-doo since I keep in touch with her. You should be so lucky do get near a woman that attended one of the top medical schools on the east coast and is making 6 figures...Just like my ex,,,Multi Grad Degrees making high figures.

You cant get near my ex's for sure unless you Ivy League and a Neuro Surgeon.

You feel you want to toy with me huh?. You couldnt even afford my Undergrad Degrees boyo. I would buy it for you but I wont give away 200k in debt to a guy that has moobs.

Since Im just a PC geek who messes in forums and I most likely wont find my mate online I will say this. Im 49 and retired skippy joe. What legacy will you leave in life?

You need to come to Kitco and maybe we can teach you a few things.

Here you go scooby. I just checked Au for you at 1339 spot and Ag at 17.91.

I suggest you stay away from the big boys and score Ag. If your stomach can handle it there may be another 13 dip to come.

But I'll be a nice guy and suggest Miners for a short. I like Freeport myself since Jan. 20.

Score an ETF for a lousy 10k and sit on it for 20 years. LOL

Better yet,,,go long on WTI. lmao

It could be that the guy just didn't love you enough. As you said he is just a boy. As already suggested above, this time look for men!

Good luck!

@mzrosie,,,from the way you post and your amount of posts I could swear you a MOD/SMOD. You know just how to re-direct certain conversations like Admins have to do at times.

I have to say I read your profile and your a lovely woman, and at 71 you are about as sexy as can be,,,please excuse my language but I have no other word to describe you. When I seen in you profile that you went (sigh)...I sighed. I dont know you and your a great poster and a very gorgeous woman. A man should be so lucky if the way you post online is you, and I would smash my grocery cart into yours every week if I had a chance to speak to you. You are absolutely fantastic.

I gotta tell ya...Dump the cat thing. Dont sigh and get a dog. Get a small Manchester Terrier and they are loyal and not as callous as a cat. If you like larger dogs get a Mastiff. Im more of an avian guy personally. Get an African Grey - No Conure. They are a bit loud depending on the flat you have.

Everything else is just perfect. I'd throw on a bit of Buble and bring you the best NY pizza you ever had, but no roses. Roses are nice, but they are funeral flowers for the dead so I will bring you lilies or gardenias. Those are lasting flowers for a woman.

Just me. All the best and see you in the forums. :)

So it's about the money!
Sounds like you're doing well! Probably why your sitting alone on a free site trying to justify you're existence!
Trust me, I'll leave a bigger legacy behind that you couldn't even start to dream of!
Sounds you're ex's have had seen the light and got rid of there baggage!

Im Sorry if i offended you guys !
its just that im hurt and angry at the same time .
maybe i just need to move on and continue with my life .
yea sure thing i didn't hate boys .
thank you for replying to my topic .
have a great day everyone :)

I love Girls.n women

I love Girls.n women

You carry on darling,
Post your thoughts and some will help.
Ignore the one's who don't, it's because they are usually the offenders!
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