why are men so in for the money and body but dont give a **** about been loved?

There is no better feeling than knowing the person you feel that something special for feels exactly like you do towards you so don't give up. Not all guys are looking for money and body.

Not clear on what your concern is. I think most men, including even the players of the world, are "in" to "being loved." Perhaps not in the exact way that the other person has in mind, of course.

And as always, if you find a repeating problem with the people who are attracted to you, and who you are attracted to in turn, chances are extremely high that your very own parameters for choosing them, are the cause of your dismaying results. The classic male error, comes from choosing a pretty face and a need for attention in women, and then being annoyed because they always seem to end up with self-centered prima donnas.

Most of us want someone who is "turned on" by us, to at least some extent, but if you choose your mates based too much on how "hungry" or sexually attentive they are towards you, you should not be at all surprised if they slack off in the quieter, more intellectual end of the relationship.

oooh I think if you are experiencing this from men you are encountering, change lanes. Men want to love and be loved, just like women.

I know I do..... that is want to be loved I don't care about the money or the body(well I do somewhat) but that does not make the whole thing complete

Nice man looking for a nice girl, that lives in Delaware!! I like to date a woman from Delaware too! Mike

I am some what like the others answers ...

are you saying they are only into you for your $ or that is all they think about in a relationship spending ... and there are a lot of men who want nice females bodies ... especially if they stay fit ...

there are many men out there that may want the same as you ...
you may be attracting those kind of men ...
becouse of the way they ...
look to ... and really don't understand if they have what they want why wouldn't they love you ...

Hummm cause when the women are in it for the money only, why the heck would the guy let his heart come into it..

Eye Candy is just that when they get tired of them they can find another hand full of models that will gladly go along for the party...

thanks!

Hi,
Regardless on gender it is in all of us to love & be loved (human nature), but some will run away through fear of some shape or format & others need constant loving through insecurities, find someone who understands balance & has more than 1 brain cell if you want more than just a physical relationship.
I wish you all the best in one day finding a good one. :)