I need some help here should i keep the age restrictions of who can message me right now it ladies who aren't married between the ages of 32-48. Am i being too restrictive. Or should I keep the age. Maybe I should be open to all ladies as the lady for me may be younger or older than that I don't know and need help.

I opened my age thing up because I have friends who are younger or older and I do not want to limit my friends that way. But it is a matter of preference

FortSmithMan:

Depends on what you're looking for and your personal age limits.

If you're looking for friends, age shouldn't matter.

If you're looking for a relationship, you have to decide the age limits you'll accept in a potential girlfriend. Then you can limit who messages you.

size and or age don't matter

I allow anyone to message me regardless of my dating prefrences! There are many nice people whom I have met here that I enjoy communicating with on a friendship level....

I don't have age restrictions on mine; give it a shot you can always put it back on Fort

Thanks I changed it to no age restriction

I've just decided to use JSH for friends only. I will be trying offline to find that special lady. If I can't find her then I'll do something my firends talked me out of doing when I was a teen. When I was a teen I was strongly considering taking holy ordrs to become a catholic priest. I'm confused should I keeep on trying or just give up and become a priest. I mean I'm not having sex now so If I were a priest there would be a reson for my celibacy. Should I keep on trying to find my future lady. Talk about being confused.

I put more picture in my profile they are pictures I've taken of Fort Smith a couple of days ago.

I think you should only become a priest IF you are honestly devoting your life to God. You should not become a priest just because you can not find a girlfriend. I think some people think it would be easier to just say "be a priest" then I won't have to worry about women...HMMM I don't think that is really the answer that you are looking for!! Plus in order to be a Nun you have to be a virgin...wonder if thats the case to be a priest?? HMMM wonder how they check to see if a man is a virgin??

Actually one does not have to be virgin to become a nun. Becaue there are a few widows who have taken holy orders and became nuns. Neither does a man have to be a virgin to be a priest or a religious brother Becauw there have also been widowers who have taken holy orders. There is also a movement in the Catholic church who would allow priests to get married. Recently in the NWT Amarried Anglican Priest transferred over to the catholic church and he has a wife still. Also I am a current member of the KNights Of Columbus and have been since April 1989.

you are trying too hard
get out there, and here meet new people talk to them learn new things about others, be open to change thats what this is anyway right? you may learn some new things about your self too
get to know them.
but every one you talk to doesn't mean that there is going to be an instant spark you just don't know no matter how you plan to find a new relationship it will not go according to plan thats just reality.
Relax and go with your flow you might be surprised at your results
good luck

I'll try.

I just watched a show the other night about Catholic Priest...they still do not allow the Priest to marry. Thats why there is becoming such a shortage of Priests...so if you can find a church that allows it...I would really check into that church.

Actually when that former anglican minsiter whio was married got ordained as a priest there was a lot of contreversy here in the diocese. Actually it would take permission from the holy father in rome to allow a married person to be a priest.

The only other Christian denomination who's services i go to besides Catholic is the Pentecostal which is around the corner from here.

I've jsut changed my search criteris now i'v included those ladies that don't have a picture.

myself age limit is wide open that is because of the friends I have meet here I talk to all ages and dont want that to limit who will e-mail me I put what I am looking for in my profile instead I mean if I say my limit is 40 no younger my luck he would be 39 shshsh so best just go with the flow and dont try tooo hard when the time is right it will happen.

Whoa! I got a vivid imagination. But I don't want to visualize this or comment. Congratulations! Too deep for me.