I been single for 3 years almost and within that years i dont have any bf at all, not because I'm not pretty and no one's attracted to me because when i saw my face in the mirror i saw a simple yet beautiful lady smiling back at me and it seems like the life is perfect, the reason why is because I'm scared to feel that rejection again and again, men judge a woman on how they look from the outside not knowing that it fades through times, sometimes it gets me worried i don't wanna get old alone but i do really hope someone would touch my heart and show the beauty of falling inlove again,

I don't mean to sound mean or anything. All I can tell you, It's best you learn to deal with it. You're going to be rejected by all kinds. And they are going to judge you. Even though they have no right.

You're only 29. You have a lot of years ahead of you. Learn to put the rejection behind you. If someone rejects you, they are not right for you anyway. Hold your head high and move forward. Always remember, it doesn't matter if you are worth anything to someone else. What matters is that you are worth everything to yourself.

You keep trying. No matter the rejection. You can't give up. Believe me, I know. I'm 55 and I've been rejected more times than I can count. I haven't given up. Not sure I ever will.

There is a phrase called "catch 22" -
1 - you are alone because you are afraid of rejection...
2 - you reject the men attracted to you to avoid getting rejected...
3 - because you have rejected those men, you are alone...
(start again with number 1)

Only you can break this cycle...the reality is - there are no guarantees in affairs of the heart...But patience and persistence will reap rewards

hii

This is good advice....most men are familiar with this, only too often, when they approach most women, unless they are movie star quality...
Don't sweat it, things have a way of working themselves out....

Alls I can tell is when you get to the stage you want to date again, think of how many you are going to reject before you find the right one for you !
Rejection is not nice but unfortunately we are all attracted to different people.

I hope you find your guy. You sound like he'll be lucky to have you. Just don't be shy, no one's perfect.

Sound like you got a case of the 30s!!! You shouldn't worry. Your educating yourself in bussiness, you have a son, and your easy on the eyes! A triple threat gal!!!

Once your in your zone, you will attract the guy you want...

Good profile...good pics.
But....
The shynesss......has to go in the trash can...
YOUR a mom Now! You are bold, strong and intelligent. Don't take no ****.
You know your great, now put away that kids stuff....Your adult life is just taking off!!
Good luck kiddo!