I dont if any other woman have been mislead by a certain guy on here but I was we talked for a couple of weeks I thought feelings between us were mutual really starting to care and out of the blue things changed I felt something was up so I went on this site and there he was when he told me he was sleeping he was on here sometimes even going back and forth between yahoo and here . I really wish I could tell you who this jerk is but I know I cant . I will tell he is from virginia.and fresh out if prison last June

So, the fact that he is an ex con didn't bother you, but his lying did? What was the offense? Make sure your attraction to him wasn't BECAUSE he was of the ex-con personality, rather than in spite of it. You may be one of many women attracted to chaos. Take these things into account, and be careful not to paint every guy with that brush.

No it was nt the ex con thing that attracted me to him I thouhgt he was a nice guy .

No it was nt the ex con thing that attracted me to him I thouhgt he was a nice guy .

I wonder if it was the same guy I was talking to from Virginia? He didn't say anything about being an ex con though. Is he still on this site? Mines not.

Im sorry you felt used... you should read my story and this happened last night:

LONG story but basically the guy I was currently seeing and dating (mind you we werent exclusive or bf/gf) decided to buy a plane ticket for another girl from JSH to come up and visit him because he still wanted to meet her and he was still unsure about us. She is from texas. Well 2 days after she left he gave me the 'no relationship just friends only' speech. He was nowhere near making that decision before she came up. I know that he is afraid of committment thats why I never pushed the issue on him but I blame her some though. She came up at a very bad time. I asked him if they did anything and he said no.

Well yesterday I found out everything. He bought her the ticket while we have been dating, they did have sex, and he lied to me about her staying the whole weekend. Instead of telling me the truth and me just crying, I got upset and pissed off because he lied to me. The one thing I asked him never to do. He said he lied was because he didnt want to hurt my feelings. Well I found out everything from the other girl. Also, he never mentioned me to her so of course she got pissed off because she felt used. He even had sex w/ me the day after she left and I didnt know this information at the time. So now not only do I feel used but I could have some STD that she could have given him w/o his knowledge.

I feel betrayed and hurt and I dont think I could ever see this guy again. Im having a problem just trying to talk to him and I really dont think he's worth my time now. The girl, on the other hand, really likes him and is gonna try and pursue a relationship with him and have him all to herself. I dont see this working because she is in Texas (we are in MO) and he's afraid of committment thats why he never committed to calling me his girlfriend. I do admit though that he said there was a possibility that we could only be friends and not a couple. I only continued to see him because it didnt seem like that was going to happen actually. He's also previously made the comment that he cant be in a relationship with me or possibly ever with anyone because he wants to avoid all the emotional ties. Basically he's just a young guy who doesnt know what he wants in life yet and who doesnt want to settle down right now so the best thing to do is date around until he finds what he is looking for.

So now Im just very depressed because this is the first guy that has treated me well and was going somewhere promising. We have been seeing each other for 6 weeks but not anymore. I guess what Im mostly upset about is that he lied to me about her and how he hid everything from both of us. I truely believe she didnt know about me and if she did, I dont think she would have accepted the plane ticket. My trust and honesty in guys is gone because of what he did and I know its going to take awhile before I can trust someone again. I also know that Im going to be extremely depressed until I get over him as well.

Sorry its long.

Was he from Grundy and have blue eyes

Hey Dont give up there are still some good guys out there some where and I am not going to quit looking untill I find one .
Dont throw away the whole busehel because of one bad apple.

I am not let him win he did take my trust in men away he just made it a little shaky .

Its gonna be ok but I will need some time.

Yes it will be ok. just dont give up there is somebody for evrybody out there,but take some time and let your heart mend.

why do you put so much stock in worda on a screen and a voice on the phone........until you physically meet them they are what you create them to be in your mind.




bear you have a right to be pissed if you guys were physically dating then he owed you that commitment. let her have him she'll figure it out soon enough

Thanks. Thats how I feel.

No he was from Saltville. But he did have very blue eyes.

I looked it up. Their only about 40 miles or so apart. Could it be the same person?

Why not just email the guys name to each other.

Email it to me too! I'm nosey.

me too, me too! LOL

ok then somebody email it to me....along w/ their screen names!! Us girls have to watch out for each other

That's right!

yeah, email his name to everyone so no one makes the same mistake.