You do and anyone who says you do not is just being biased and closeminded

well how much does it effect you if d*ck and jane get a divorce

and you are friends with them

Yeah, it looks a lot like marking territory

in speaking about territory

it has been marked for as long as animals

have been on earth

and maybe before

If **** and Jane were my friends, and they got a divorce, then in all probability, someone gets dropped, left out.

looks like someone wants to

lead thei back to that """other subject"""

lol looks like you do adj4u!!!

<-------gets out the boxing gloves!!!

that may be your choice

but even so how does it change your life

or affect the way you live your life

sure you can give them advice on how not to get the

divorce but how will it effect your life

maybe you choose to take sides maybe you do not

but it has no major affect on your lifestyle

not me i made a remark related to this thread

i did not make it a human relations issue

Robin,

If they both were my friends, and they get divorced it will affect me, because one of them will surely say that as long as I'm friend with the other one he/she can't be my friend.
It's a trust issue, you know?

i agree but how will it affect the way you live your life

friends come and go all the time

Sometimes its not my choice robin, sometimes it is theirs. Like how invisible explained it.

Why are we talking about divorce?

and if they tell you i cant be your friend if so and so is


then they were never your friend to begin with

who do you know that is divorced

everyone has given advice to those going threw it

there have been threads asking about it

those on the outside have a clearer view

common thread with title of the thread

that everyone can relate to

and no matter what advice you give

you do not know all the facts

you only know the ones you are given

and your advice will not affect your lifestyle

it may affect a friendship but not if they were really your friend

so your input is of no consequence to you

so should you give it

and can you do so objectively

Are you actually comparing divorce to life's woes?

i never said you could not say what you thought

did i

That's quite true, but I didn't know that, did I?

It's like having 2 friends, they fall out with each other, and suddenly you are the target

divorce is one of lifes biggest woes

and i am discussing what this thread is about

whether it is the intent of the author of it or not

this look familiar



hugs andrea

I see that........but to have one friend say you are siding with the others is ludicrous and ignorant!!!!