YellowRose10,

I agree the bride should always be included in major discussions especially a wedding.

Good for you!

Yes I know.
Let's go to Pisces for a turn over. Lol it will cheer you up

I am kind of women that always intentionally leave my guy with other women whenever the females approach to him. It is not about the testing, religion or culture . In my tactical passive attitude to this matter, I believe the unconscious body languages displays his mental thoughts. If he doesn't come back to me as quickly which would shows enough that I am wasting my time and energy with the wrong guy. The same principal applies to the female best man. If I have finally said yes to his proposal, and my husband-to-be decides his best man to be a female. I would not have problem at all as this is not the first day I "know" him.

Most women and certainly a Wife to be typically know they are the only woman on Earth.

Therefore, good to go with the female "Best Man".

Take it from me....I am OLD school and not qualified to answer anything.

MikeyYouSweety,


Well...thank you, I like to be able to voice my passion to help communities.

Matrueyear,


Welcome to my cyber mansion, I take it you very secure in yourself to be able to leave your guy around other women to see if he's loyal. That's good but its a lot of women who just aren't there yet at the level you are at. Most women are territorial with there men. I even her women say" I trust you but not other women". I don't know if I totally agree when women say that well...its just when women say that why persecute the women and if you have suspicion on your guy then you should say" We need to talk!"

LeeFranklin,


Welcome to my cyber mansion, well that's true, women are natural fashionistas that's one of the reasons why I said this would work.

I think a woman can be best man, but it can be a path with a few pot holes. Make sure the bride to be knows about this, and maybe even better if she actually knows who will be doing the best man position. I would think that if she knows who, she will understand the type of friendship between you and the best (wo)man. If planned out and everyone is happy, I think it should go off without a hitch.
Have a great day.

Can a woman be a man's best friend..hmmm.. she could if she could just learn to fetch his slippers... and agree with him about everything..then yes yes anything is possible Pinocchio..lol

think you can have a wedding just about anyway you choose to these days
jumping out of an airplane, skiing down a mountain, scuba diving
you name it and someone will try it
so really it is up to the couple involved
and letting their wedding party know and perhaps family members as well

now for the real question..will you be able to sustain that friendship with a woman after you marry a woman?
ahhh...probably not
well yes, perhaps in the beginning it will be fine
but then little things will come out of your wife's mouth
like " don't you think your bestie needs a man in her life..besides you I mean"
" we should set her up with a guy" " it would be so much more fun because then we could all do couple things together"

see what I am saying here?

..nope.. but if you're saying my best friend and myself and you should have a threesome.. then.. hot dog woman.. you just became my new best friend..lmao..so kidding..lol

hahaha..you know I am intimidating just on here..my good doc
imagine how I would be dominating the bedroom
telling you exactly what you are doing wrong
and how to make it right


I kid...or do I

if there is another woman anywhere near my room
she better be the damn maid cleaning my house

Lol..to to funny omg..lol

TMommy,

Welcome back to my cyber mansion. Well i like your thinking.

EyeAmYourHost39,

Well i guess its safe to say that women can be best men at a very different wedding. Alot of y'all were open minded only a few was still traditional way. I even learned that a few of you ladies wasnt going for another woman prepping her man. See thats what's its all about diversity. Different opinions and no one had to die...lol