when i decide to have kids thats when looks are important i want my child to have good looks like his dad. so i want my woman to have good looks its NATURAL SELECTION.

Fortsmithman, this is a very admirable attitude. It's certainly one that I hope I could employ, myself. Even though I don't exclude women with children from my searches, however, I have to admit that it's a very daunting possibility. I would be hard pressed to claim that I would make a very good father right now. Heck, I've only had my own apartment for a year. I think I've only just proven that I know how to take care of myself. I want children someday, but I am not just a little bit frightened of the responsibility I'd be taking on right away if I were to get into a serious relationship with a woman who already has children.

random please explain the crappier end of the deal?


girl with the "baggage"

Iceprincess just checked your profile an I assume those are your kids in your pictures they are real cuties and so are you. The man who becomes your man will be extremely lucky in deed.

So far he thinks so LOL he also has 2 kids so i guess we are both getting a crappy deal out of it i'm not sure it seems in this thread at least men have issues with her kids but what about his? As for attraction physicality is just that get to know someone and you may be shocked at what attracts you

Well at 18 you have the right to be cocky and stupid....

Be careful what you ask for.... LOL

i feel that if there is a connection the physical part falls into place... if you like someone for who they are... everything comes together... at least thats what happens with me.. i look for heart first and like i said it falls into place physical wise

wow that was deep

well im not stupid. and yes i will be cocky being a player is a lifestyle i choose and i kinda am happy i dont have probs with women you will never see me ask a question about women

Well you are just afraid that photo might match the one at the Post Office LOL

And ignorance at 18 is acceptable too....

It is okay that you know it all Player... We all thought that same way....

you'll have to excuse maja...she's swedish...and she escaped from her cage. BAD MAJA! GET BACK HERE

jk darlin

yokoke...there's no need to speak condescendingly to people with differing views/mindsets/belief systems. I do admit that I used to look down on Christians because I USED TO be Christian myself and learned to see all the flaws within the religious organization's infrastructure, but I don't anymore because I realized that I could never look at a concept like religion from every possible viewpoint. If you think you used to think like thatplayer89, please realize that it isn't possible for you to see life in the exact same way that another person sees it. It's not fair to judge him so harshly.

? i doubt that many of you thought like me because once more i have no problem getting women. and keeping them. so if you thought like me you would do the same can you do this who knows. im being me and i will be this way till i die

note. other people dont have thier pic up so why do i need mind up. and why does it matter me my self know i look good and it seems that women i showed my pic to here seem to agree. so stop trying to get on me.

At 18 most people were cocky. Let him be if he wants to. He will learn as time goes by.

You don't have your picture up player because your heads so big it will never fit in the viewer screen. I called you out once. You aint got nothin. You a wannabe with a ton of useless advice about how much you get, and how you get it. Just keep that in mind you got nothing. You aint shown me nothin. Just a bad truckstop mudflap picture and a bunch of blah blah.

And for those defending him. Just picture your daughter with him. Uh huh there's an eye opener for ya. He degrades women on here! Hello! Must be grand to be lower than the dirt he walks on. How do you like being treated like a piece of meat women? How bout doormat? How bout like a piece of toilet paper? It offends me.

Although society does not want to recognize this, women are ALSO visual (for the most part, as much as men) and nothing beats a gorgeous man.

I'll admit, I am very concerned with a man's looks. Sorry---it's just how it is.

That said, what I find irresistible in a man (masculine-beautiful, thin, short, nice chest, muscle-ly but not "big," punk, etc...) is not always what other women find irresistible.

it's not so much the looks as to how a person takes care of themself. personality still goes a long way though. in the end, that's what will still be there.

That's almost an irrelevant argument from a evolutionary standpoint. In my psychology class today the professor talked about parent and child conflict being the basis of their relationship. At a relatively early age (say, 18 perhaps) for the child, parents will tend to want to be very controlling of their offsrpings' mating habits because it would be resourcefully disadvantageous for them to have grandchildren while the parents still have reproductive ability and value. As the parents get older and lose the ability to reproduce, they will want their children to give them grandchildren to propogate the family. If your daughter were 18, you wouldn't want her to be having sex with anybody, therefore you wouldn't want her to be dating anybody because you realize that sex is a common practice correlated with dating.

Sorry, that is actually called "artificial selection". It is how we breed dogs, horses, and other animals.