Topic: how would you react if someone told you they were falling in
Amberdee29045's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:11 PM

yet you still hadn't met? but were planning on meeting and dating?



run, run fast, run far............something's not right here...............

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:12 PM
Ok...I have to say this....

I've known couple here on JSH, that have fell in love with each other before ever meeting one other. I know for a fact that you can fall in love without having to meet each other.

With that said, there are people that need to have a connection with one another. I personally need to feel them, just to make them REAL to me. Understand?

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:13 PM
Edited by fortsmithman on Sun 11/25/07 09:16 PM
I fell for that. Now I've come to realize I got to meet the lady first in person face to face to see if there is any chemistry. If there isn't then i'm hoping for friends. But there has to be a meeting in person between the people involved.

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Sun 11/25/07 09:13 PM
I'm wondering out of curiosity why to run? Puffins, I understand two can fall in love without physical contact, but I feel that unless it works in person you can't have true love. Sure a phone/internet "love" i guess can exist but is it real without the personal connection that only being together can bring?

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:14 PM
Well it depends on how on long one another been speaking to each other, if it's been for more then a week or two then I wouldn't run away.


atomicd's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:15 PM
what? miss you dont really love mesad sad :cry: :cry: laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 11/25/07 09:17 PM
I think Katrina hit the nail on the head with the people confusing love with "like you a lot" or "lots of infatuation"

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Sun 11/25/07 09:17 PM
Dude, run far and run fast

Rebel4x4s's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:18 PM
if her name is Jenny or Jennifer or Michele from west virginia RRRRRRUUUUUUUUNNNNNNNNNNNN its a lie and fake. Everything said

missfabulousxo's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:18 PM

Dude, run far and run fast



lol, don't run..just talk to her about it.
how long have you two been talking?

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:19 PM
ay...

NO, believe me when I tell you, they are definately a couple of JSH, and have yet to meet one another.

I give them alot of credit, it could not, would not be me.

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Sun 11/25/07 09:19 PM
No, she lives near me in the same state. umm lets see we've been talking like 3 weeks to a month not really sure. We don't even talk online just on the phone.

Rebel4x4s's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:21 PM
just keep your witts about you and dont get caught in her feelings and see how it really pans out

scttrbrain's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:21 PM
I would say it depends on how long you have been talking and the depth and length you talk. Say; if you have been talking for months and a lot. Maybe hours at a time. I can see where she may have feelings for you.
Talk to her about it.
Ask why she would think she is having those feelings without meeting you?
Why are people being so harsh? We do not know the facts.
Kat

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:22 PM
Edited by fortsmithman on Sun 11/25/07 09:22 PM
Puffins is this couple justyn and silently screaming. Because most here at JSH know that I think.

Rebel4x4s's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:24 PM
I am not being harsh just saying keep his witts and dont let her feelings dictate his feelings figure his own feelings out for himself.

katrina_4888's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:26 PM

I think Katrina hit the nail on the head with the people confusing love with "like you a lot" or "lots of infatuation"


thanks! i may be young and naive...but i've been in that sitch before. it made me run. i know i haven't been in love...so when other people say it to me far too early, i get a little worried.

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:30 PM
Edited by fortsmithman on Sun 11/25/07 09:32 PM
I'm communicating with one lady here on JSH and about 4 others from different dating sites. For all I know I might bump into my future wife here in town. We just don't know who our true love will be. I could meet here in a dating site or here in town.

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Sun 11/25/07 09:30 PM
I agree. I didn't say anything really. I don't even know what love is i've barely ever had feelings for anyone in particular.

missfabulousxo's photo
Sun 11/25/07 09:31 PM

No, she lives near me in the same state. umm lets see we've been talking like 3 weeks to a month not really sure. We don't even talk online just on the phone.



three weeks?
naah.

i don't think so.
haha.