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I went to a visitation today for a friend of mine that was killed by her controlling ex boyfriend.
I just want to say to anyone in controlling or bad relationship, how important it is to get out of it. The whole situation really put things in perspective for me. Appreciate what you have, love life, and yourself. Don't spend so much time being upset over things you don't have. Live everyday like it could be your last and make sure, everyone that you care about, knows that you love them. |
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I went to a visitation today for a friend of mine that was killed by her controlling ex boyfriend. I just want to say to anyone in controlling or bad relationship, how important it is to get out of it. The whole situation really put things in perspective for me. Appreciate what you have, love life, and yourself. Don't spend so much time being upset over things you don't have. Live everyday like it could be your last and make sure, everyone that you care about, knows that you love them. you're so sweet, and such a great person; i'm so sorry that you're going through this, i'm def. here for you though. 
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  Holding you with arm's wide open, Jill.. And a beautiful message shared, thankyou. 
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im sorry about your friend. my last relationship would have ended up that way i am sure of it had i not gotten out. you are right...help someone in that situation. it is easy to judge them for being there or not leaving but until you walk a mile in those shoes, never judge just offer the encouragement and friendship and help if possible. my thoughts are with you!
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She was only 22 years old... she had 4 kids. So anyone willing, prayers for the kids and family would be appreciated. Thanks.
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i prefer a woman to be in control of the relatonship
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So sorry for your loss Jill...
flowerforyou: (((Hugs))) |
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So sorry to hear of the loss of your friend, I believe noone deserves to be battered, abused, or treated bad in any way. I hope that your post helps at least one person then they will be better off.
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prayers as we speak darlin
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im sorry about your friend. my last relationship would have ended up that way i am sure of it had i not gotten out. you are right...help someone in that situation. it is easy to judge them for being there or not leaving but until you walk a mile in those shoes, never judge just offer the encouragement and friendship and help if possible. my thoughts are with you! |
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Prayers for the children are going out...
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My prayers are with her and her family!
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Prayers being said for her, her family, and her friends
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thank you...its never easy. too often the victim is also a victim of verbal and mental abuse...beaten down mentally to think that is the best they will ever get, no one will want them, so that also makes them stay there. they are often told they are worthless and no good, stupid, never able to make it on their own...this mentally causes them to stay. i do alot of social work, so i also see this too often not to mention my own experiences.
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Edited by
fortsmithman
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Sun 11/25/07 07:09 PM
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To me any relationship between a man and a woman be it boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife are supposed to be partnerships not dictatorships. When I get a giirlfriend/wife I will not be controlling. Because before I do anything major I would have to seee what she feels about it first. I would like to say sorry for the loss of your friend.
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There needs to be more help ou there for people like that! I know and this angers me!
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So sorry to hear about your friend. Huggs for you and prayers for those children and her family.
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Prayers sent.
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Edited by
cdcuteice
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Sun 11/25/07 07:11 PM
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I am sorry to hear of that.I give you respect and i hope the best comes out of this situation. Be strong and hold faith that true love does exist and it can be found. True love has been found by some.
Hold your head high and walk tall. |
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My purpose for putting this on here is to make sure people realize how REAL the danger is of getting killed. It doesn't just happen to other people. If you are in an abusive relationship, you must get out as fast as you can. Thanks everyone for their thoughts and prayers
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