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Topic: Interracial Dating
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Sat 06/10/17 04:40 AM
A beautiful couple

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Sat 06/10/17 04:45 PM
Now tell me guys what do u think of interracial dating

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Sat 06/24/17 12:16 PM
If u are interested in interracial dating...u can say hi...only for the serious ones

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Sat 06/24/17 12:20 PM
People should be with whom they like.
Don't like seeing labels put on anything no matter where they come from.
Good luck

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Sun 07/02/17 12:41 PM
It's not a label mikey, some people just like a special thing about interracial dating....so it's ur choice whoever u like whether interracial or not...

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Sun 07/02/17 12:42 PM
It is a personal prefence

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Sun 07/02/17 12:47 PM
labels can be our friends,, they acknowledge the 'individuality' among humans by allowing descriptors to show that individual does not mean alone, but others are similar in certain areas,,,

I bet noone would blink an eye if someone posted to hear from those who were sports fans, or reality tv fans,,,

people sometimes seek out those with similar interests,,,

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Sun 07/02/17 12:50 PM
Edited by msharmony on Sun 07/02/17 12:51 PM

Now tell me guys what do u think of interracial dating



I see color, but I do not find 'attraction' based upon color, at all,,

there are certain physical features that are more attractive to me than others, but I can find those features within groups of EVERY 'color'

and there are character traits that will trump the physical features, which also can be found in groups of every 'color'

I find interracial dating no different than intra-racial, race is no guarantee of a shared culture or values or interests, which is what matters most to me

I lean toward interracial at this point, but I have no mandate for something to be interracial,,, my daughter is mixed and I would like her to see that reflection of herself in her parents,,,

but again, not mandatory,,

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Sun 07/02/17 12:59 PM

labels can be our friends,, they acknowledge the 'individuality' among humans by allowing descriptors to show that individual does not mean alone, but others are similar in certain areas,,,

I bet noone would blink an eye if someone posted to hear from those who were sports fans, or reality tv fans,,,

people sometimes seek out those with similar interests,,,

I'm not a fan of labels,
I have this new t shirt and the label is really irritating my neck laugh
People have a thing about labelling or as we say putting people in a pigeon whole, I think it refers to the postal office.
As soon as this is done then it makes people different to one and other and that doesn't help!

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Sun 07/02/17 01:01 PM
but people ARE different mikey,,

that does not mean better or worse,, just different,,,

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Sun 07/02/17 01:14 PM

but people ARE different mikey,,

that does not mean better or worse,, just different,,,

Yes, I know.
But in a society that is meant to be integrated as soon as you label one sector then I think that can ostracise them. ie. Muslim or any other minority. people are all people?

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Sun 07/02/17 02:28 PM
yes, people are people

but some people live in Nevada and some don't

so we call them Nevadans

some people have ancestors from one place and some from another so we give them racial categories

some people have a penis and some a vagina,, so (until recently) we gave them 'labels' as well

integrated does not have to mean homogenous

differences are what make us human and not clone

if people choose to ostracize certain differences, that is their problem,

I will take that over making everyone homogenous anyday,,,

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Mon 07/03/17 03:07 PM
That's true msharmony

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Fri 07/07/17 12:27 PM
hi

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Mon 08/14/17 10:22 AM
I think this should not be a issue, however it is so some people. Too many things divides us as human already, therefore let nature takes its course.

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Mon 08/14/17 11:01 AM
I think the campaigners give this bad press, and the rights brigade!
People should just do what makes them happy!

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Sun 09/03/17 08:25 AM
Date whomever you choose. I always have. I find interracial dating and relationships interesting. But also, same race relationships are. Just depends on who you are attracted to, and them to you. I have never chosen to be with a man just because of his race. I was married to a black man, but have been single for many years and all of my relationships and dating has been with men not of my race. Just a matter of choice who you choose to be with.

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Wed 09/13/17 06:24 PM
as long as love is the common denominator.

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Fri 09/22/17 12:47 PM

as long as love is the common denominator.



Agree

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Fri 09/22/17 12:59 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 09/22/17 01:00 PM
'love' and being 'happy' and 'chemistry' are often times overblown ideals promoted by media and not based in reality

love, happiness, and other feelings ebb and wane with our experiences

if one is making partner choices based on race, or 'love', or happiness or initial 'chemistry'

as the deal breakers ,, they are selling themselves short ...IMHO

compatibility breeds success, as well as a willingness to grow and accept the potential for growth in another...

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