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Topic: what do i do
MelissaJO519's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:06 AM
Ok so im not going be saying any names or anything but i met this guy on here and everything was going great untill i got a message from his friend saying to leave him alone b/c he was and still is married and does all this behind he's wifes back. Basically i dont know whether to beleive him or his friend or even this whole BIG mess!!!!


I NEED HELP!!!!:cry:

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:09 AM
I always of believing things that "come out of the horses mouth". I suggest attacking this issue from the person who is married.

MelissaJO519's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:09 AM
what do mean??

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:11 AM
Never heard that saying? Ask him if what his friend says is true.. Your get an honest answer, or a lie

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:12 AM
Ask him in a message and if your gut is telling you he's married then leave him alone but if your gut says not married then go with him gollow your gut instinct.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:14 AM
I think he should at least have a chance to explain wether his friend is telling the truth or not... He could be separated and in the process of getting a divorce, yet didnt want to scare you

MelissaJO519's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:14 AM

Never heard that saying? Ask him if what his friend says is true.. Your get an honest answer, or a lie


i did and he's sticking to his story!

HAPPYGOLOCKY21's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:17 AM
plenty of other peeps on here lik me flowerforyou f him

giocluedart's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:18 AM
My only thought about that is...why would his friend tell you something like that if it weren't true? And is he still friends with him? Who would stay friends with someone that's lying about you behind your back?

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:18 AM
Hmm how is he sticking to the story?

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:18 AM
Happy are you still drunk

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:18 AM

My only thought about that is...why would his friend tell you something like that if it weren't true? And is he still friends with him? Who would stay friends with someone that's lying about you behind your back?


There are many resons for this, im afriad. Without judging eithe of them ill leave it at that

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:19 AM

plenty of other peeps on here lik me flowerforyou f him


Yes are you drunk your typos give you away im afriadlaugh

JaceKnows's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:19 AM
Maybe I'm just cynical, but if someone says someone is married, or I even hear the M word... I'm gone. I have no time to waste on someone who might be or might not be married. If he's not married, there's a thousand and one ways he can prove it.. and if he doesn't WANT to prove it, then he probably is. If he's sincere and honest about wanting a relationship with you, he'll do what he can to prove himself. Keep a wary eye on him, though. Something's rotten in Denmark.

giocluedart's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:19 AM
true...his friend could have a thing for you...that's a crappy situation, and I'll leave it at that :)

HAPPYGOLOCKY21's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:19 AM
yes and working my mack on this girl

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:21 AM

yes and working my mack on this girl

Good luck to ya on that. Have fun trying

HAPPYGOLOCKY21's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:21 AM
yes im drunk sorry ill go away just tell me the way to the bathroom:cry:

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:22 AM

Maybe I'm just cynical, but if someone says someone is married, or I even hear the M word... I'm gone. I have no time to waste on someone who might be or might not be married. If he's not married, there's a thousand and one ways he can prove it.. and if he doesn't WANT to prove it, then he probably is. If he's sincere and honest about wanting a relationship with you, he'll do what he can to prove himself. Keep a wary eye on him, though. Something's rotten in Denmark.


Id totally agree with you except she been talking to him for a while, and if there are feelings. Wouldnt one not want to seek to understand?

fortsmithman's photo
Sun 11/25/07 12:23 AM
Edited by fortsmithman on Sun 11/25/07 12:24 AM
And melissa before happy does anything dumb I apologize for him. He seems like a good guy. A pity your 19 and I'm 40 if you were older or I younger I could've made you forget him but you're too young for me. Pity

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