I am falling in love with a man on here, and he lives in a different state. And I have very strong feelings for him, and it seems like he wont brake down and tell me, or even ask me out unless I move closer to him. I dont know what to do.

ssshhhhh. I don't you not to say anything

Take it steady...too many women get hurt...me included

Go slowly

what do you mean he wont brake unless you move closer?

he wont tell me his feelings for me.

That is a very hard thing to deal with...I feel the same way...I like someone here very much...but he lives way far away....I would love to be with him everyday....he is so sweet and an honest guy...which is hard to come by anymore....but I dont wanna get hurt so I havent told him how I feel....I know he really respects me too....but all of my family and friends are here where I live and same on his end....so I say what ever happens....happens....good luck though and I hope you follow you heart...but you gotta listen to your head too!!!

This guy doesnt come from England does he?

Well then how do you know he HAS feelings for you?

if he wont tell you how he feels about you then hes probably not worth having anyway. why would you move near someone who wont at least convince you its worth it by telling you he loves you?

he tells me he likes me and would date me if i was closer to him.

no, he is 5 hours away from me, in a different state.

we dont live that far away.. i'll take ya off his hands

Funny how they are all starting to sound like the same guy...mind games...

haha, you are silly. you are following me in fourms..argh.

no we just happen to be in the same place at the right time.. see we already have something goin for us lol

LDR's work fine at first. It gives you a chance to get to know each other. And you're only state away... that's easy. (My guy is overseas presently)

If he wants you to be that close, maybe he should move closer to you. If he can't be real with you prior to having you make such a big move... not worth it. Don't sell yourself out for someone else.

If it really is love between the 2 of you, it will find a way.

Good Luck.

I would just plain ask him hun...I for one dont let distance stand between me and the women I want to be with..I have had long distance relationships before and it's nothing. You want it to work then it will..Now..dont let yourself get played either..alot of people say things like that cause they dont want to hurt the others feelings..Not that he is...but just be careful and guard your feelings and your heart..Your way to goodd for that. If I was you..I would just come out with it and say hey..heres the deal..if he wants it then he will come along, if not..your no worse off..I wish you the best in this matter..I really do hun

sounds like to me you're taking a big risk..what if you move and he still doesnt tell you he loves you ..or feels like after all that he doesnt want to be with you..or you dont want to be with him..alot of ways this could go wrong..have you weighed all the options..why not visit first ..