Topic: I want to be with him.
cdaddy's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:25 PM
my god girl. you're only 18 years old. you should have better things to worry about than some guy who hasnt got the stones to tell you how he feels.

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Sat 11/24/07 06:26 PM
I kinda think I am crazy for thinking I am falling for him. Because I only joined this site lastnight, but we talked all night until 2am..and we been talking all day today and tonight. He makes me so happy, and he brings the real person out in myself. I am just so happy when we talk.

musclehd's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:27 PM
are you for real?

cdaddy's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:29 PM
sweetheart, you have a lot of life left. you didnt fall in love with thei guy in a few hours. he probably told you exavtly what you wanted to hear. you have to be careful who you talk to on these things.

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Sat 11/24/07 06:30 PM

sweetheart, you have a lot of life left. you didnt fall in love with thei guy in a few hours. he probably told you exavtly what you wanted to hear. you have to be careful who you talk to on these things.

Haha you sound like my father, when I talk about boyfriends with him..maybe because you two are the same age..haha.

cdaddy's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:31 PM
ooohh. now that wasnt very nice.

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Sat 11/24/07 06:31 PM

are you for real?

yes :smile:

musclehd's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:31 PM

sweetheart, you have a lot of life left. you didnt fall in love with thei guy in a few hours. he probably told you exavtly what you wanted to hear. you have to be careful who you talk to on these things.





so tru.. like i keep saying meet friends on here not relationships.. lol thank god he wasnt me your were talking to you'd probably be pregant and want to be married by now.. lol j/k i hope everything works out with ya

mbcasey's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:32 PM

I kinda think I am crazy for thinking I am falling for him. Because I only joined this site lastnight, but we talked all night until 2am..and we been talking all day today and tonight. He makes me so happy, and he brings the real person out in myself. I am just so happy when we talk.


I am sorry to say this but red flags are going off everywhere. Please listen to people who have said slow down....you might really get hurt if you jump into anything so fast.

Good luck to you!

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Sat 11/24/07 06:33 PM


sweetheart, you have a lot of life left. you didnt fall in love with thei guy in a few hours. he probably told you exavtly what you wanted to hear. you have to be careful who you talk to on these things.

so tru.. like i keep saying meet friends on here not relationships.. lol thank god he wasnt me your were talking to you'd probably be pregant and want to be married by now.. lol j/k i hope everything works out with ya

haha, you are so funny.

musclehd's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:35 PM
i kno.. but dont fall in love with me.. not yet at least.

singingmyheartout's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:36 PM

I kinda think I am crazy for thinking I am falling for him. Because I only joined this site lastnight, but we talked all night until 2am..and we been talking all day today and tonight. He makes me so happy, and he brings the real person out in myself. I am just so happy when we talk.


My advice... wait.
Plain and simple. My son's father and I met (face-to-face) when I was 17... he was 19... we kept in contact but were not close. At my age of 19, he and i started dating... and 3 months later we got married thinking we had chemistry. A month later I was pregnant with my son... we were separated not even 2 years later and divorced the summer after our separation. My son is 7 and never really got to know his father because his father won't have anything to do with either of us.

I rushed into something stupidly... I was young, alone and naive... thought because he said he loved me, he did. If I saw my 19 year old self today, I would tell me "You're too young to know what you're doing. Wait it out"... "Don't jump the gun prematurely"...

Oh, yeah... failed to mention this guy... he was 22 at the time and sleeping with my brother's ex gf who was 16 at the time. They have a kid together who was born the day after my son's 2nd birthday.

If this guy is your age... you're both WAY too young to be moving cross country for some grand love that is less than even a month old. Give both of you time to grow... but don't sell yourself out because of a few really great conversations.

Best of luck. flowerforyou

nuenjins's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:37 PM
It's infatuation the first couple of months darlin'.

RICKG1961's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:39 PM
Go with the feel's of your Heart:heart:

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Sat 11/24/07 06:40 PM
you know nothing about this guy other than what he's told you and you have no way of knowing whether thats the truth..and youve talked to him how long...are you kidding ..slow down ..this guy could be a major weirdo do not take a chance like this i could be wrong but i think youre fixing to make a big mistake ..you might need to listen to some of these older people...flowerforyou

Smokeythebear69's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:42 PM
wow last night...Just be cautious hun..I'll tell ya..Men and some women will tell you what you wanna hear..and all players know how to talk the game..not saying he is...just be careful..your to nice to have some piehole cut ya down.

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Sat 11/24/07 06:42 PM
just tell him

no photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:52 PM

just tell him
tell him what?

musclehd's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:55 PM


just tell him
tell him what?



whoa!!!! no dont tell him.. if there is any chance for you guys your gonna thro it out.. even tho i find this strange..

take it from me, a girl tellin a guy she thinks falling for him can ruin everything.. this has happened many of times for me. i just had to let the girl go.

mry's photo
Sat 11/24/07 06:58 PM
You might just be infatuated with him. It hasen't been very long. It takes awhile to know people well.