Im 18 n have never had sex, i dont attribute this to a higher moral power on my part, but to what i call "lack of hotness"
i dont think that not having sex should b a goal at all! i mean CMON some of us get none and now im being told there r GUYS consciously refusing it! That sounds just plain crazy to me!

Forgive me if I may be so bold, but are you sure that your partner was willing to invest all of the effort necessary to please you? You may have been communicating clearly but that does not mean that he was eagerly putting into practice what you were saying. I'm not claiming to be a prodigy, by any means, but it is my nature to be focused, adaptable, and enthusiastic.

wlp i better get cracking i am running out of time

Forgive me if I may be so bold, but are you sure that your partner was willing to invest all of the effort necessary to please you? You may have been communicating clearly but that does not mean that he was eagerly putting into practice what you were saying. I'm not claiming to be a prodigy, by any means, but it is my nature to be focused, adaptable, and enthusiastic.


all the effort in the world will not make up for a lack of sexual compatibility darling. If it's not there darling all the focusin hte world isn't goin to make it magically happen. It's kinda like staring at an ice flame love no amount of focus, praying, wishing, is gonna make it generate warmth

Of course he was willing and furthermore, did "invest all of the effort necessary to please" me. He was/is a fabulous lover---just not for me. The compatibility was/is not there.