wow that really sucks.. you are a beautiful girl, what are you thinking? you dont need to meet guys on here for a relationship, i dont think anyone on here should.. i think this site is great for meeting friends, not anythig more than that.. you need to get out around you area and meet some people not on here.. time to suck up and move on now, he wasted your time and you deserve better. good luck!

I guess I tend to be too gullable. That or I am a big dreamer. LOL! I wish I could be hard, but that is just not me. I am caring and passionate, and the men who act like they are too, I fall for it. I am an asshole magnet. LOL!

the world is full of losers the internet just brings them closer to your door ... ..just be glad you didnt have a lot of time invested with the loser...

When you talk night and day for hours at a time, and you can't wait to log onto the computer to see what sweet messages they have left you....you fall and you fall hard. I tend to be a little co-dependent, and my downfall was looking so quickly after a 6 year marriage. I thought that I could move on just as rapidly as my ex-husband. I know you are a man and might not understand that.

Wow, there needs to be more women like you in my area lol. Can you teach a training class and ship them over to me?

I would love to! I would teach men and women. LOL! They both need to be taught how to treat people.

I agree with Gorko.

To answer that question, I am a single mother of 3 and a full time teacher. I am unable to just drop everything and go out. I also live in an area that it takes an hour to get to a city. LOL! I really thought that the "online dating" scene might work. I think that it still can, just like everyone has said, I have to be careful. Thank you for your reply!

Don't get me wrong. I understand that you are hurt. My spidey sense would tingle if anyone told me they loved me if that was the extent of our contact. Wouldn't one need to at least meet them in person for that to happen. Or is love considered to be something you throw around on a whim? Myself, love is a very serious emotion. It is only offered to those who I deem worthy after knowing them for months. Sure I may really like them and be attracted, but love is a gift for both to share. Not something that you give without strong consideration!

understand? of course i do babe, ive been in love and been where you have been but she only lived a few miles from me.. i dont believe in long distant relationships that's where we dont see eye to eye.. i live a lonely life i have and have too if i want to accomplish my dreams, i know what its like having someone not there to wake up too or call when your feeling down. but hey i survived.. its more of the reason i signed up here to meet new people and to have people to talk too.. so far this site has been great for that.

very well said

If you've discovered a way to "control" your feelings and "control" who you love, then please share your secrets with the rest of the world because last time I checked, you can't choose who you love. There's nothing mental about it. If you could make such a decision then I'm almost certain there wouldn't be any bad relationships in the world.

well maybe i'm so cold and emotionless i can..

I agree...I believe that is what makes me feel even more like a dumbass!

lol go figure you're a teacher!

Why would you feel like a dumbass?

And that is so sad! You have become "cold and emotionless"??? Is that what the world is coming to? I just couldn't imagine it that way.

dchat, did I see correctly. One has no control in whom they love? Holy crap, then who does? You always have control! Do you walk in a bar and see some gal who appeals to you and fall in love? If she spoke to you and you got along, are you ready to set the wedding date? Of course you have control. Love is both emotional and mental. If we had no control we'd all be in love with models and the Hollywood gang and be lonely forever. If you don't know this, I feel for ya bro. A lot of hard lessons to come!

Excuse me, sir, but what does that mean??? Are you making fun of me, or is there some kind of joke that I am missing here? I don't want to jump to a conclusion on that statement, but it made me feel a little uneasy.

By no means am I even attempting to make fun of you. I don't do that kind of thing. I just saying it like it is. And I'm not a sir, I work for a living. LOL