What would you do if you found out that your spouse been cheating on you?

That's what I wanted to do,but I couldn't.

What keeps you there?

My baby

I feel for your difficulties. Only you can decide what's best for you and your baby.
Please be careful. Good luck

Thank you!I wanted a divorce but I'm confused.i don't know what to do.

I would kill the cheater

That's easy: Cheat on them with either:
A) Their Best Friend
B) Their Sister, OR
C) Their Mother
***I'm pretty certain that would teach them!

Or, in your case, being that you're a female, you would just have to replace my answers with

A) Their Best Friend (still applies)
B) Their Sister (Their Brother)
C) Their Mother (Their Father)

How does this solve anything?

Hi laxmielane

... so your husband cheated on you and you go join dating sites looking for dates... and asking for advice. An eye for an eye is not the answer.

You won't find the answer here on a dating site. Go ask your family and friends for support and advice.

IMHO once a cheater, always a cheater.

Good luck

Hello Laxmielane welcome to Mingle. I don't believe everyone who joined mingle is looking for a date. The fact that you just revealed your situation now is being honest to yourself and to the people here without the shame of hiding anything. I commend you for that whatever your reason is for now, I hope that you will find answers to what you are seeking for. If you are confused now, it would be better to seek advise from trusted people, but beware, not all advice are good for you.... people have different ways of dealing with their problems. You are the driver of your life's journey. Whatever decisions you make in life will not only affect you but your child also. Take time to deal with your problem carefully. Don't complicate things. Fix your problem at home, talk with your husband. The solution is not from outside but inside your home, you, your husband and your child. Goodluck.

best reply ever thank you!

best reply ever thank you!

op... ask him what he wants out of life ... at this point ...
then ask him if he wants a open marriage ... that might just work or make him leave and pay child support... see what relative you can move in with ... see what it takes for low income housing in your area ... for you an your child ... think more about the child ...
and getting out away from someone who plays around ...

Thank you appreciate it.im a foreigner in his country so I got no one here except myself that makes my situation even more tragic..

if we dont have kids i would be out of the door in a heartbeat

Well I divorced my wife because of that. Now I want to tell you that was very hard to do because I loved her so much and I tried to make it better but I couldn't. It gave me big time panic attacked for years, but it would have been worst to stay with her because I could never trust her. I am now over her. Thank God. That was the worst thing that ever happened in my life. I hope God gives you direction as to what to do. Maybe you can talk to him and every thing will work out for the best. Good luck.

Take it or leave him.
Cheaters are comfortable cheating, that is how they do it.

It would be terribly hard on you to leave, with a baby and
needing a full-time job, but that is what you face.

You might wisely take some planning time now, save up
some $$, list all your needs, see if it is doable.

Well said.