What's the best way to get over a bad break up? You know the ones you just can't seem to get off your mind ...
Looking for some advice...

Hi Jill.... only time will heal you.

Funny you should say that I think Im going through one, but he wont say for sure...but a friend on here has done a bit of matchmaking with someone who is not on this site...and hey presto a date and a very welcome distraction...

Time will heal you. That's all I know of that will get you over it.

start a lynch mob ?

Break as many ties to that person as you can, so you hear less about them and this will help to stop the constant obsessing and rehashing all that went wrong. Get a hobby or a couple hobbies to keep your mind busy and do not wallow in sad songs and depressing activities. Get out and get some exersize it helps with depression and it is healthy. This worked for me. Oh and give yourself time before getting involved with someone new as another failed relationship will not help and rebounds are not good for either person. Hope that helps

LOL I like the idea! But I'm trying to not go to jail lol

I also think not falling for a lot of mens clap trap on this site is a help too

mmm.. this might sound bad.. but hook up with someone.

muscle Im with you on that one...

nicee.. lol i thought you gals were gonna gang up on me.. i mean that would be nice too i guess

Muscle some of us gals are unique...

after i got divorced and moved to the other side of the country, i decided there was need for a drastic change (besides moving...)so, i cut my hair to give myself instant gratification.

only time will ease your pain. life is all about struggles and change so just be prepared for it! yes, cut off ties with this person. it helps far more than you realize!

and what if the other person does not cut off all ties with you, what does that mean? are they unsure?

A felony might be a good way to clear your mind but as the ol' phrase goes, "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else."

well cutting off ties is easy if you moved to the other side of the US.. but if you still live in the same area of that person it hard. i see ALLL of my exes out everyweekend.. a few drinks in you or that other person things are going to be said.. like i said best thing to do is hook up w/ someone else.

What an excellent saying

hahaha so true

Does anyone have an answer?

Thats the problem, he's been dragging it out... I never get an official answer to anything. Sometimes he won't speak at all, sometimes he will talk and then stop talking all together. It drives me crazy.