my day is completely since I found one guy in my life but it's hurting me when I found out that he has relation to a girl who is married to another man...my heart ache if I remember

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That's ur business

If you want to forget him you need to put him outside of your life, break up with him, then you can go out with your true friends and enjoy yourself in their company. Spend more time on one of your interests and leave dating alone for awhile, life goes on, you will recover.

Welcome to Mingle2, and enjoy it here in the forums.

Thank you sir , I like your answer....for your advice I w ill really appreciate it , not only for me but for the other person also

Hey .. Dats too easy.. U also start ur life like that only .. Making relationship with. A new guy.

You've fallen for a man who is "the other man" in a relationship and he's willing to cheat on her to be with you???
RUN... RUN AWAY FAST!
DON'T LOOK BACK!!!

Come on, you can do better, you deserve to be with someone who wants only you!

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Hello madam

I can feel your hurt. I have gone through that. The best thing for you to do is start talking about your problem to your best friend. He will be the best person to get you out of the hurt. But again your friend cannot be with you always. So utilize this chance to do the most interesting thing you always wanted to do in your life and keep yourself busy. It's difficult to forget that person but as time passes it will happen.

This is a matter of logic. What you discovered, was that he was NOT WHO YOU THOUGHT HE WAS. So he never WAS "the guy made for you," or your soul mate, or whatever you thought he was at first.

He's just another person PRETENDING to be who you want, and worse: because anyone who pursues someone who is still entirely married (as in not at least legally separated, waiting for the divorce to finalize) is a person entirely without honor. And no one without honor is worth feeling bad about.

Forget about the cheating sonavagun. Mourn this relationship then move on.
Time will help ease the pain.