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I am running for my life now.... I don't want 9 years to go by. I feel much better, but I am sitting home on Friday night, wishing I was with him.
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I am running for my life now.... I don't want 9 years to go by. I feel much better, but I am sitting home on Friday night, wishing I was with him. Me too... Im feeling that way too. |
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Things are comfortable for him, and after a year, if he doesn't want more...he will never be motivated to think about more as long as you are available. He takes you for granted. Start loosening the ties, and go your own way for awhile. You are accepting the terms of the relationship on HIS terms. He is setting the tone, and if it is not what you want, then set some boundaries for yourself as to what you are willing to tolerate or settle for.
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I am SO in this situation right now too... the easy answer is move on, but its much easier said than done....
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Do you think loosening the ties will get me what I want? Or is it just over?
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i dated a commitment phobe for four years and when he wouldn't take it to the next step,i said goodbye.
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How long before you started dating again? I want to start dating right away and it has been less than a week since "the talk".
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FunG - Right now he has his cake and eating it too. Why SHOULD he want anything to change? Pursue other interests for your own sake, or you could go on like this indefinitely. You can't "make" him give you what you want. He either feels it or he doesn't, and most guys will tell you...if they want to get close to a girl they WILL. This guy likes things just as they are. You can either waste 4 years waiting on him to "change." or you can go on and find someone who does want to be with you and doesn't have reservations about a relationship.
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I was in the same situation and it drug out for 9 years, I could have had a lot more but I waited for him and now Im the one all alone. Dont wait to long hun... you do deserve more. You won't be alone there's a guy out there for you he could be anywhere. |
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The sonofa***** is using you. He's not gonna commit because he has what he wants and it works perfect for him. You're just enabling him by letting him get away with his pathetic excuse of "not wanting a relationship right now". Run far, fast, and take your self esteem with you. That is the most valuable thing you will lose if you continue on your current path. To thine ownself be true. Good luck, girl.
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great advice jace~~~!!! Took the words right out of my mouth!!!
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throw a brick through his windshield...
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Get your brothers to stomp the crap out of him
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rotten fish works great in the motor of his car!!!
 
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rotten fish works great in the motor of his car!!! no,you use Sardines,haven't you learned anything from me??? 
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ohhhhhhhhhh those work good too!!!! <-----me learning every day!!!!
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tomorrow i will be giving lessons on 5 easy steps on how to get everything you've wanted in life and get it on a first date!
now class dismissed... |
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Some advice please. I have been seeing a guy for over a year and when I say I want the relationship to move to the next step, he says he does not want a relationship, but continues to try to see me. I am trying to stay away from him, but he continues to call, etc. It's hard because I really want to see him> Question is the age old question of how do I get him to commit? He says one thing, but does another. His signals are confusing.... Should I just move on or keep trying to make it work?  You have heaps of good advice...two choices...sexual doormat...or a whole and healthy person, who knows they are worth more.
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non-relationship guys:
perfect for those non-relationship non-relationships |
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