you respect the woman not the clothes ..what she wears doesn't necessarily depict who or what she is ...

thats true. but you only get one chance to make a first impression!

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Dear--------

Last night i was lost in a world that i hardly ever see, except when i am with you. When we embraced our very spirits, beings, souls melded, blended, intertwined together.Yes, You remember, i know, even after all this time, my daily situations cannot overcome it. As i lay down to sleep at night, with my window cracked open to allow the easing of a gentle breeze,coming in also on the reflection of the moonlight is a reminder of how your love has illuminated my heart, my very inner being with this wonderous thing that tells me to the depths of all that is me,''i am love, embrace me,never let me go, i am the ultimate energy source that feeds your very soul.

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but you should be impressed by the person not the clothes i.e cant judge a book by its cover..besides i dress for myself im not out to impress anyone and if any one has a distorted view of who i am by the clothes i wear then thats on them ..not me...

DUDE a lady is a lady no matter how she dresses

NEVER!!!!!!! DISREPECT A LADY!!

U GOT SOME GROWIN' UP TO DO

blah blah blah. Seriously though, I think you only get back the same energy you release. If you dress like a ho, and act like a ho... you gonna be treated like a ho.

However, I've know women to be dressed very sexy, yet tackful and sometimes even professionally sexy.

You get what you give.

Just what I was trying to say.

Another point, there are women who dress for other women's judgement and women who do not dress for other women's judgement. This makes a difference in dress also.

dukes ..how someone dresses and how someone acts are two different subjects ..we're talking about clothes...

awesome statement.

Who ever said men were supposed to understand women.
One of life's GREAT mysteries.

Another excellent point, this applies to male or female

firstly I don't like girls who look like hoes, rakes perhaps, riding lawn mower most definately but no hoes for me.

Chapelle had a bit about this once. Sure just because I look a certain way you shouldn't assume I'm this way. Just because a lady looks like a hooker doesn't mean she is one. She sure is wearing the uniform though. It'd be like if I put on a cop uniform and something went down and you came up to me asking for help. Hey lady, just because I'm dressed this way, doesn't mean you should assume that I'm a cop!

(funnier when he says it)

This is one of those double standard things. They want the attention of being sexy to be like a moviestar, not realizing we see it as a piece of meat instead.

I forget if it was chris rock or dave chappell, but there was a perfect sketch about "you may not be a ho, but you're wearing a ho's uniform, and that's damn confusing!". I can't do it justice but if you've heard it, it fits exactly what you're saying.

PS: In a world where some women will judge a man entirely by his SHOES, I don't think we're the villains here. Not saying that makes it ok, just saying everyone does it.

EDIT: Geek beat me to the punch on the dressed like a ho sketch. Get out of my head man!