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Topic: the lessons you have learned from past relationships
Unknow Joined Wed 09/19/12 Posts: 1852	Tue 05/09/17 11:17 AM
Her stockings never did quite fit me right, neither did her heels. hate it when that happens, always struggle to find a nice pair of size 11s Sling backs are the answer, that and good balance Thanks funky, will call in town and pick some up for the weekend, I need to get some ham and pickle anyway

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 05/09/17 02:55 PM
Well.. I have learned that" i "need to commit give my full attention to only one ...woman.. and see where things go... that is what I am doing now!!! . Giving her my full undivided attention.. My..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Tue 05/09/17 03:23 PM
Well.. I have learned that" i "need to commit give my full attention to only one ...woman.. and see where things go... that is what I am doing now!!! . Giving her my full undivided attention.. My.. Shouldn't be a problem if you love someone. Good luck!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Tue 05/09/17 03:28 PM
Well.. I have learned that" i "need to commit give my full attention to only one ...woman.. and see where things go... that is what I am doing now!!! . Giving her my full undivided attention.. My.. Shouldn't be a problem if you love someone. Good luck! ... whoa slow your roll Rambo.. Nobody !!said anything about love...lol. .ohhh.. darn it!! there I go with that fear of commitment again...lol

greeneyes148 Joined Fri 12/25/15 Posts: 5830	Tue 05/09/17 04:13 PM
If she talks all the time to herself.. there may be a few personalities in that head.

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Tue 05/09/17 04:39 PM
Mistakes are made, lessons are learned. With that said I take what I have learned previously into the next relationship. One lesson I haven't quite figured out is not being so damn shy. Shyness is something you can learn to manage with the proper help and can do wonders for your being more assertive and direct with both men and women hope you get help as fears are often stronger than efforts to reduce and or eliminate them,,

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Thu 05/11/17 08:53 AM
Well.. I have learned that" i "need to commit give my full attention to only one ...woman.. and see where things go... that is what I am doing now!!! . Giving her my full undivided attention.. My.. Shouldn't be a problem if you love someone. Good luck! ... whoa slow your roll Rambo.. Nobody !!said anything about love...lol. .ohhh.. darn it!! there I go with that fear of commitment again...lol Rambo? I ain't got muscles like that! I'm soft, feminine, girly, all woman, and sweet. His words Besides, I tried firing a handgun last year, and no matter how much I loved it, after 6 shots my shoulders had had it, haha. No way I can fire -not even carry- all the chit that Rambo is humping around. I can do the headband, that's yer lot But glad to have rocked your boat. I'll help you get over that fear of commitment. You're getting there, calling her "My " is a step in the right direction :) Pretty soon it's going to be "My "

Biscuitz87 Joined Thu 05/04/17 Posts: 3	Sat 05/20/17 10:05 AM
I will never dim my light or intelligence, shutting my mouth for the sake of a man's ego. I'll never put myself last and allow myself to feel all sorts of uncomfortable ways so someone else can be or feel like they're in control. I'll never succumb to the belief that just because one man treated me in these harsh ways, that I'm worthless and that no one else will love me. I'll never sacrifice my happiness and peace of mind like that again. I'll never lower my guard again, will always remember my value and my worth, what I bring to the table, and if a person doesn't measure up to that then, tough luck... ... it felt good to let that out.. :)