Alright, I have a class on Mondays with this girl; beautiful little blonde. Wanted to ask her out all semester, but she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend is fugly though. I mean not to be mean because I knew the guy when he was younger and always had to stand up for him, but this just doesn't seem right. Maybe this is an arrogant point-of-view, definitely bias, but I like her and I don't know what to do. I've heard her say in class how cool and hott she thought I was and I think she deserves better than what she has. So I would appreciate any advice anyone has, ESPECIALLY the ladies, as you would probably know what would make the girl happy.

Women in relationships r off limits....she may b very happy it isnt for u to decide if u r better than her bf is....and it may be she does think ur cool and hot but everyone even ppl in happy relationships notice good looking ppl

yeah, dont do it. if a guy asked me out while i was in a relationship, i'd think he was a jerk and i'd tell my boyfriend.

if you were in a relationship with the cutie in the class, and some other dude asked your cutie out...would you be p****d off? and if the dude that asked her out was once cool with you, would it make a difference?

hun, if you know she is in a relationship, leave her be! and his looks may not be what makes her happy!

It may be flattering to her for you to ask, but you should be gentleman enough not to ask!

I agree with cuppy...Its just a way of being friendly...you need to talk with her and see if she is happy...if she is, backoff and just be a friend...if not, then let her make her own choice...dont push her just bc you dont think the other guy is good enough. For all you know...he's the perfect guy for her...

And if she said yes and WOULD go out with you while in a relationship with another guy..... she'll do the same thing to you.

AMEN JACE!!

do you believe in karma gr8ness?

that is very true...listen to us we all seem to kno wat were talking about

Yep, been there, done that... wisdom comes from having lived it. (=

ive been there done that too...sucks in the end for both parties...

absolutly do NOT do it

So you think she deserves better? What makes you think better is you??? Because you're better looking? Tougher? Do you feel you are entitled? You sound arrogant, yes. You are arrogant, yes. I've been in a situation similar a few years back and choose my bf. I was so turned by by the other guys bravado. Looking good isn't all it takes to impress any woman who is worthwhile.

my point exactly

AMEN lily!

You dont seem very stand up if you want to steal a guys gf...soooooooooo not cool!!!

Maybe they're perfect for each other... he steals her away, she cheats on him. This big ol world keeps spinning around...

I wasn't talking about dating behind the other guy's back. I was talking about stealing her away though, which I guess in hind-sight is pretty sh*tty. I guess maybe I am arrogant. That's not very attractive is it? Thanx, you guys are right! By popular demand, I guess I will just have to wait and see if she becomes available and work on being a little more modest.

whatever happened to the man's law of "bros before hos?"

sure is, just let me know if yous gets your eye dotted