This post seems like the usual BS that insecure people put out there to bash people who by more or less accident of birth have one physical attribute or another that they don't have or see as an unfair advantage.

Large or small breasts do not make or break a woman. As many a Cancer survivor will readily tell you.

Yes there are a few juveniles and yes a few men developmentally arrested men who make a lot of noise about how boobs is all that really matter as a factor of attraction. I assure you boobs might get a glance but if you have little else they are just so many ounces of flesh.

But I think even the real number of men focused on breasts are even smaller; but because it gets them a lot of attention to keep up blather about it, they repeat what works. Women who are the other side of the spectrum usually more in the middle (because people aspire to just be a little more) and that will inspire them to commiserate . As obnoxious as that is well that gives them the in they are looking for.

I think it is an overstatement to say misery loves company but it is particularly cruel that people have to stand on the throat of others and make them feel like a freak when they are just what they are.

I can assure you I have never used my breast size to get or keep anyone or anything. To do so would be prostitution in my view and that is clearly not limited to Those who have breasts of the ample variety.

PacificStar, thank you for your input. I apologize to everyone who had been offended by my post.

Going by the topic question, when I see a tall attractive man, the first thing that goes through my mind is, wow he'd never be interested in someone like me. I then think, I don't know if I could see myself in a relationship with someone so tall.

Wow, I have something in common with Rosie.

I've never been a "breast man." I've witnessed a lot of "breast men" talking about them, though. The extreme ones genuinely don't care if there's anything to the woman other than large breasts, and some of them don't even care WHY the breasts are large.

I guess I'm more of a "grace" man. The look in the eyes is important too.

The thing about "they need to have the rest of the items" from the article is certainly on the mark for me. Good looks can attract my attention initially, but if the rest of it turns out not to be there, that attraction passes very quickly. I remember a VERY long time ago, when I first really noticed that. I'd just seen a photograph of perhaps the most statistically perfect female human I'd ever seen (a playboy centerfold circa 1973), but the look in her eyes was so empty, I was surprised to find that I wasn't turned on even a tiny bit by her looks. Since then it's been a gradual refinement of what I was aware of, but what I have been attracted by hasn't change much, save that I have steadily been less drawn to the young, and more drawn to and aware of the attraction of the women in my own age range. Fortunately, I think.

I know that this whole thread got started on the topic of breast size and physical stature, but there's one thing that I personally think is more significant than either of those ... the eyes. A person can convey so much more about themselves by how they use their eyes than any other part of their anatomy.

Am I the only one who thinks that way?

I know that this whole thread got started on the topic of breast size and physical stature, but there's one thing that I personally think is more significant than either of those ... the eyes. A person can convey so much more about themselves by how they use their eyes than any other part of their anatomy.

Am I the only one who thinks that way?

I'm a sucker for a woman who flirts with her eyes.

I do not feel any attraction whatsoever
until I hear them talk.

Not that my brain does not rule out
the shorties (and for no other reason
than they run to insecurities too big or
small for me to deal with.)

But until I work out from them who they really
are they might as well be giraffes to me :-)

Oh and if they aren't looking at the boobs
they are gay.

Seriously, back in the day when I would meet
a new fella, if they did not at least once
check out the boobs, they always turned out
to be gay. Always.

The first 6 weeks are the worst

i admire and love the piece/

Amon

That's about it Rosie. If I see an attractive woman with big boobs I think.. She's attractive but then that's as far as it goes. I may have stuffed this quote up..

No, it would actually be good for the economy as new men's pants would have to be designed.. depending on the ball size he picked out.

But seriously.. I have no idea whey woman do that.. fake boobs?.. so it must mean something to them.

but that is for another thread