I wanna see as good girl friend.

Wow, that is a complicated statement!
The phrase "making love" is code for sex in our culture, so let's start by thinking about that.
The drive for sex and using sex as a bond is much stronger in men for evolutionary reasons. Men are like sperm soldiers evolutionarily, kinda like worker bees. We just want to get the business on at first, but we will also fiercely protect our mate once we do.
I also have to say that men need a continual signal of need (affection) from a woman or they will go elsewhere. If a woman is done with them, then they have the evolutionary responsibility to go elsewhere to continue to spread their seed.
Women need to be choosy in terms of genetics, but they also need to be sure that the man will be there to provide when children come.
The love bond between man and woman is a trade off between security for the woman and her potential children and the need for a man to mate with as many women as possible (yes, that is a cultural dilemma in our society but is a natural explanation for why men cheat).
When you talk about "love" you have to think about the biological origins of word before you go further. Let's think about it.
What do you readers think?

Actually was responding to Toodygirl5 but did not work.
Still enjoy the comments...

I have found that 'seeking' love is a losing battle but being open to it finding us has better odds.

I am therefore never 'seeking' love. The love I have for God , self, and family fulfill me plenty enough. I am open to the 'additional' love of a partner though.

Dont find love.... Love ll find you if you are honest and true. .....

why do people seeking love online than personal?

Why are you?

hii wat r u looking for here??

Thst is very true !

would this be a question of numbers? whos counting? people here are finding someone or just hoping to be found. good luck everyone

I feel that individuals are "NOT" looking for LOVE! more of a "HOOK-UP!

searching

in the words of ed sheeran : we found love right where we are and darling i will be loving you till were 70 (or more)

Oi boa noite