Topic: Please rate
jay5424's photo
Sun 04/02/17 07:26 PM
Edited by jay5424 on Sun 04/02/17 07:26 PM
Please rate my profile and for lady, let me know what turns you off (pic, description, ...). Thanks.

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 04/02/17 10:33 PM
Pics are poor and suggest poor hygiene.

Text is a real turn off. Name calling and vaguely vulgar attempt at humor is a fail.

45 yr old bragging about travel with no evidence of employment; fail.

no photo
Mon 04/03/17 11:35 AM
Edited by LennyTgr on Mon 04/03/17 11:36 AM
Well I'm a guy so I can't give a woman's perspective but I think your pics are good and you look positive and cheerful which has got to help. The text description is very much to the point and expressed with clarity - I could take lessons from you on that score as well. Overall I think you did well.

jay5424's photo
Mon 04/03/17 04:57 PM
Hi, thank you for both reviews. I bit shocking from PacificStar but I guess I'm not good as sales!!

I removed few words and will change to reflect better who I am.

I guess that was the idea to request review!

J

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/03/17 07:15 PM
Referring to women as "Princesses" as a demeaning sexist slur reflects badly on any man who uses it and sounds like whining and that wasn't edited. Still no pass no play.

no photo
Mon 04/03/17 07:36 PM
One of the main problems with political correctness (which is what you were invoking) is that it puts too much emphasis on what was said but not how it was said or the context. Clearly in this context he did not intend a slur and as for being "sexist" better go and blame the creator who made us a sexually dimorphic species ie we are NOT unisex.

jay5424's photo
Mon 04/03/17 08:26 PM
I like the debate here, interesting.

I was referring to "princess" to those who expect the man will do whatever she asked for, up to being on their knees. Those princesses exist and that is fine. That yield to drama from my opinion. just not for me.

I'm looking for a relationship which is balanced, we see each other equal, no one owe to no one, but we support each others.

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 04/03/17 08:54 PM
I think you need more pictures...
While Star and I usually agree not this time.
This is what I get from your text...
You are looking for a partner in life that can meet you halfway instead of you doing all the work.
You want the professional and personal to blend good luck with that. Hey you might get lucky..

Best wishes in your search.