For me i dont mind cuz theres no age on love older or younger
Just you have to be good person respect and love and you love that person from the inside not outside and iknow alot of people that marry older women and they have perfect life soo let see people what they think about it

I do not think age is an issue. Although, with men age can be more of an issue because men's sexuality is affected by age. This does not happened to women - in terms of function!
When choosing a partner, for me it is all about how attracted and/or interested I feel about the man.

Kindly explain more what you mean by a Man's sexuality is affected by ageing unlike women.
Doesn't a woman's sexuality depreciate with age? The boobs don't respond like they usually do during teens,twenties ,thirties etc lol....
Do they?

Having the man be older than the woman, is an artificial cultural tradition. But then on the other hand, the idea of marriage itself is an artificial cultural tradition.

The main thing I have come to focus on with this general subject, isn't the age or physical characteristics of the people involved. The formative element in human relationships, is what each person is truly dedicated to. Those who are dedicated to each other, AND to making their joined lives positive, will tend to be alright come what may. Those who only THINK they are dedicated to each other, but who are really only dedicated to "having a good time in their own heads," will not be.

I would note one thing in particular: if you find that you are looking for a mate who is of a certain age, ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE OF THAT AGE, then you are deluding yourself, if you think you truly love them.

People ask about age, color, religion, race etc.
My answer to you is look at your beliefs, dreams and values. See how that will mesh with the person you plan to marry.
Although divorce is prevalent in society, my hopes for marriage is to make it work.
In order to give a marraiage that chance there needs to be some common ground.

People can only comment based on their own beliefs and experiences.. I have seen more then a few relationships of people with large age differences, I have yet to see one last.

I'm not saying some don't, I'm saying I haven't seen any.

I think the actual age difference itself would become a factor. Not really too much of a factor earlier in the relationship but later in the relationship as the "older" of the partners, ages faster then the younger.

I have seen posters on here, who are seeking partners who are the same age.. or younger then the posters children. And of course.. to each his own, but personally, I find that... wrong on a few fronts.

But, that is just my opinion.

It's not the age of a person that affects performance, the state of health determines that.

I agree. There is the story of a 95 yr old Man who had a son with a 25 yr old woman.

Over the years I have experienced and observed many relationships.

More often than not but not universally the ones that are most unequal, often unhappy, are the ones where there is a large age difference.

Or developmentally. If ones life has been stunted, usually by some kind of depravation; being raised by much older caregivers, extream poverty, isolation, crushing fame, illness,even incarceration.

You see it commonly when one person has either been over or under parented and would not know how to deal in a healthy balanced independent relationship if they
Were lucky enough to trip across one.

Sometimes this is a cultural norm where mating has very little to do with the happiness of both principals. Often it is where one gender is more/less highly valued.

Often it is so socially ingrained that people will pick mates because the relationship with parents, social status, financial security, even career success falls behind self.

What is particularly cruel is when one finally realizes they have been sold out. It is usually when they are betrayed or find them self alone with no one because they have been used.

yeah, then 3 months later he dies of old age, she inherits all his wealth and the game plan worked... just ask the gal who married the actor , Tony Randall

People trading matrimony/wealth (even relatively small amounts) for care giving are common. Sadly it is often a very poor trade rife with abuse on both sides.

If a person has never seriously done I 24/7/365 they do not have a clue how difficult it is. Or how slanted the laws are against caregivers who are often treated like slaves then kicked to the curb when the patient is hospitalized



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It is a hard sell to convince potential migrant spouses of either gender that things in the new "better" country will not work out but being homeless living in the gutter as a throw away is rarely better or safer regardless of the country.

Yes you need to know with wolho u are

due to my previous experiences; no, i wouldnt marry to someone that much younger than me. i respect other people's preferences but for myself, an age difference over 4-5 years doesnt work out.

Do You accept to marry a man that he is 10 years younger the


No. The penis is a deal breaker for me.

Agreed..it's almost the age of the brain..maturity and understanding keeps love in the head (where it originally generated) not anywhere else

Age may not matter, but it is where you are in life. A guy 20 years younger than me might say, I really care about you and want to be with you and have to have children. You are out of luck with me.

Yes sometimes work sometimes not but always theres god and theres not just you have to be with right person

Theres thay dont want kids