I got one that confuses me. She is my ex. She screwed me over once but
still wants to be my really close freind. She is tryin to keep me from
my relationship that im in now and will do anything to stop it. I call
her out on stuff but she would say it wasnt true and say I was wrong.
Everything seems to end up being my fault. I put everything into her and
still ended up getting screwed

pretend i posted this, what would you do? i'd leave her at a truck
stop somewhere.

I know it's hard, but you can't be friends with everyone. If she is trying to keep you from this relationship and is causing you a lot of problems, but blaming you, is she really a friend? REALLY? Real friends don't do this. It sounds as if she may want you back, but don't do it. It doesn't sound like she has changed. She screwed you when you were together, she's trying to screw you now. If you go back with her, I bet she screws you again.

It's difficult, but I would pull her aside one day and tell her it's not working out as a
friendship. Ask her to not contact you at all. No text, phone calls, emails, etc. If she keeps after you, you may have to block her and/or get a restraining order. Sounds harsh, but I am willing to be you won't be able to have a decent relationship with a woman while the ex is still around.

By the way--just what are YOU getting out of keeping her around? Besides a lot of ****?

I'd get a restraining order

Sounds like a one-side friendship and also a woman that doesn't really want you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either. And believe me, if she's messing up this new relationship, she won't stop at messing up another. I'd give her up. Seems to me like all you are really getting out of this so-called friendship is grief.

She wants to be a really close friend????? Sounds like a trouble maker if she is trying to sabotage your new relationship.

Easy........1, 2, 3 PUNT!!!

She’s trying to have her cake and eat it to. When a person does that, it’s all about control. She couldn’t care less about you. You need to CUT HER OFF. No more contact. It’s also incredibly unfair to your new girlfriend. What are you thinking?

she was screwing you over, and still is not bro. you have officially become a source of entertainment. best bet, write her out of your life altogether. you can't move forward if you dont take off the chains.

sounds like she doesnt want you,but doesnt want anyone else to have you either,I think you deserve better

If she really wanted to be your friend, she would not keep you from happiness, and if you really wanted happiness you would not allow her to keep you from it.

listen to lilly. she can tell ya.

Ditto............


I had to do a double take on this post..
I thought that King was back, dang it...

These kinds of "obvious situations" strike me as the OP really knows what he should do but simply wants to post about it.

Geez...cut her out of your life and move on. If you give her the power to wreck a new relationship then it's "your bad!"

no they like going back and forth.

she fiddles with him cause she's kind of jealous, and he calls her up...cause he's pissed, but he likes to hear her voice..., she denies, and he scratches his head.

banana: a day passes, and they do it again. it is an old lover's game, however, there are new players on the side.

Did anyone not notice the date of this post? I'm sure this guy is long gone.


Why does the guy keep pulling old posts up?

Good catch...I sure didn't look at how old it was!