Topic: Went on my first online date !
ravensong's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:22 PM
:heart: I met a really wonderful guy right here on this site bigsmile :heart: I wasn't really sure where I should post this ... But I just had to share .
I had only been signed up for this site for less than 24 hours . I saw a really short profile with no photos for a guy liveing in a town very close to me . So I took a huge chance and sent him my number in a email . Wowwwww bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile We talked on the phone Saturday evening . then went to see a movie on Sunday then he came over and took me to town to pick up a medication perscription this morning . On the way to my house he drove across a cattle guard to fast it ended up really hurting my back . We were on his motorcycle . I've got fibromyalgia so getting bounced on the back of his bike so hard was bad . Anyway he called me after he got to his house to see if I wanted to see him for dinner . When i told him that I was in so much pain I couldn'tr walk much less ride the motorcycle . He suggested that he bring several movies and something for dinner to me . He brought me two huge pizza's and we spent the evening snuggled up on my couch eating pizza and talking we kinda forgot to turn on the movies :tongue: bigsmile Sooo is this how the online dateing this is supposed to work ???:wink: I've never even thought about doing this before laugh

Leecy_Marie's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:26 PM
Wow That's awesome!!! I hope that I have as much luck as you did. I've been on here for a rew days now and am talking to someone but I'm not quite sure if i should meet him yet. I wish you the best of luck with your new guy!

Maestra's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:27 PM
Wow! Sounds great. Hope your back feels better!

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:28 PM
All my flags went up, I would have definately would have met him in a public place the first few times. Then I would have invited him over to my place.....

noway noway noway

no photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:30 PM
thats right ..one for us guys with no pics ...laugh

mbcasey's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:40 PM
Glad it worked out for you and I hope you feel better!

Dolce_Exotica_Me's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:41 PM
Good job. Lol. Be sure to keep god walking beside the both of you. So that you might continue to walk in happiness and peace. I am talking to 2 guys ones from france, one from paris omg they are gorgeous and sweethearts. They are actually meeting me next year. lol. but well see how it goes. Good luck to you and the guy. But never let your guard down. because thats all you have :)

Sincerely,

Margarita

gorgeous19's photo
Mon 11/19/07 10:43 PM
wow!
lucky ya! dis isnt da way any one had eva thought online datin wud b like...lol


m happy for ya...hope da couch discussions last for a life time...hehe

ravensong's photo
Mon 11/19/07 11:34 PM
Thanks everyone flowerforyou I know it was a daredevil move to give him my number . But as far as allowing him to come to my home ... I live in a very very small town and I know that at least 4 of my guy buddies saw him when he arrived so I felt safe . Then earlier tonight I introduced him to a girl friend of mine .I also have not gone into his house alone with him yet . Up till now we've been in public .
I just got out of a relationship that had turned bad ! That was only 5 days ago . The ex had been liveing with me since July . But things were heading downhill for the past two months . Then Tuesday while i was at my doctors office getting a shot in my spine ex went thru my dresser and took ten dollars from me !! When I realized it was gone and i confronted him , first he denied it then switched his story saying he'd only borrowed it ! I told him to get out as I won't tolerate a thief .
I made it a point to tell the new guy all about it kinda a heads up on what I do and do not like ...bigsmile

lily38's photo
Mon 11/19/07 11:52 PM
Okay, I am totally with Puffins on this. You appear to move quite quickly in the relationship department. (Just going on info. in your posts here). I really hope you slow it down.....breathe....take some time.....get to know yourself before you open the door to guys you know little about. I only tell you this because I been there, done that in my youth. It's like taking the LOOOONNNGGGGGGGGGG way around.

Maestra's photo
Mon 11/19/07 11:56 PM
I agree. Slow everything down a bit for your own sake and safety. If it's good, it will work and still be there if you move more slowly

soundedmind's photo
Tue 11/20/07 12:03 AM
I am glad that things went well.

Oh but please be careful.



Letting him bring you food?
He's been alone with that food before bringing it to you. That's a LOT of trust for a first date... oh... that just scares me.


Be careful Gf.