Topic: Msg: For Husbands,boyfriends,boytoys...men in general!
LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:34 PM
To keep your marriage brimming
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you’re wrong, admit it;
Whenever you’re right, shut up.

Ladies what do you think?
Prove me and the author wrong!

noway


Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:36 PM
Lol, why? I think that is an excellent thing to do hehe

toreybelle's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:42 PM
Not only in marriages, but even just getting to know someone.... How is it that we are or can trust someone we're just getting to know. Has anyone out there ran into "bull****ters" and question wether they're telling you the truth. Is it wrong to ask them to prove it to you, esp. when it's something major.... Tell me I'm wrong, but don't we have to be safe???

Welcome LatinLTC

LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:56 PM
Thanks ladies for responding....

Dragonl0ve's photo
Mon 11/19/07 02:58 PM
Did we burst your bubble? I am just kidding around. I always do :)

LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:06 PM
toreybelle...thanks for the comment. I appreciate your comment but there is a misconception or stereotype that men are bull****ers, dogs, and every other negative thing out there..................
and of course because of a few rotten apples all of us take the blame.
What I have learned is that men and women at the core are no different it their methods that are no the same. Men a typically
less emotional about their actions..this is true and women have a harder time understanding the men and viseversa.

glasses

LatinTLC's photo
Mon 11/19/07 03:08 PM
Dragonl0ve not at all. It just proves the point that I just made women and men inherently the same!
I was just thinking about a situation with a friend of mine...and with my experience with her I came to the this realization.

lovesongsweetie's photo
Tue 11/20/07 05:32 AM
i think the last line of that poem is sexist.

everyone, regardless of gender, should learn to be mature enough to admit when theyre wrong...

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 11/20/07 05:48 AM
drinker drinker drinker

no photo
Tue 11/20/07 10:33 PM
very true./ in my experience its useally women that have a hard time saying sorry when theyve offended men, Most men of this generation walk around with a placard on saying sorry for breathing.

nvrsaynvr's photo
Tue 11/20/07 10:36 PM
Everyone (male or female) should admit when they are wrong and be able to apologize!!!flowerforyou drinker

Maestra's photo
Tue 11/20/07 10:38 PM
I haven't seen any placards lately - been carrying my own, though, for a long time

lovesongsweetie's photo
Wed 11/21/07 09:31 AM

very true./ in my experience its useally women that have a hard time saying sorry when theyve offended men, Most men of this generation walk around with a placard on saying sorry for breathing.

i agree...
therefore men lose confidence...
they learn to fear women...
therefore becoming socially awkward and depressed...
...so they make dating websites laugh

lizardking19's photo
Wed 11/21/07 09:39 AM
further proof of the emasculation of men in our society:cry:

coquibella's photo
Wed 11/21/07 02:04 PM

very true./ in my experience its useally women that have a hard time saying sorry when theyve offended men, Most men of this generation walk around with a placard on saying sorry for breathing.


I agree with you. I've encountered WAY TOO MANY men that apologize for everything and have a very hard time just being themselves. How about we accept each other as we are and admit mistakes. It's the only way to really learn from them.