Topic: Coffee and single women
RustyKitty's photo
Thu 03/16/17 04:22 PM
Edited by RustyKitty on Thu 03/16/17 04:22 PM
hmmm... I think I'll go to starbucks..never thought of that,.. for conversation of course.. lol..

no1phD's photo
Thu 03/16/17 04:46 PM

Actually not everyone the same if you decided to turn everyone down by not given them a chance who knows maybe one of are yours. Men are not to be turn down , you need just sit with them and listen to whatever they have to say.
..ohhhh.. that sounds pleasant just sitting there listening to whatever they have to say..WOW.. are you for real dude.. holy crap check your Mammoth beating Club at the door

Buddyhamilton's photo
Thu 03/16/17 05:10 PM

Hi Buddydrinker

How are you

Buddyhamilton's photo
Thu 03/16/17 08:25 PM
had supper with my sister Vicky tonight :) how is everyone?

no photo
Thu 03/16/17 08:27 PM
How does this^^^^^ relate to the op's topic?

Buddyhamilton's photo
Thu 03/16/17 08:27 PM


Actually not everyone the same if you decided to turn everyone down by not given them a chance who knows maybe one of are yours. Men are not to be turn down , you need just sit with them and listen to whatever they have to say.
..ohhhh.. that sounds pleasant just sitting there listening to whatever they have to say..WOW.. are you for real dude.. holy crap check your Mammoth beating Club at the door


laugh

Buddyhamilton's photo
Fri 03/17/17 06:53 AM
Good morning everyone

Buddyhamilton's photo
Fri 03/17/17 06:54 AM
Have a great Friday :slight_smile:

Buddyhamilton's photo
Fri 03/17/17 06:56 AM
:thumbsup::smiley::ok_hand::grin:

KarenW8's photo
Mon 03/20/17 12:16 PM
Just a follow up on my original post:
After all the kind and (not so kind) reply's, I have decided that the overwhelming opinion is that I should lighten up a little and not present myself so self indulged as not to acknowledge people who are just trying to be friendly. This morning, I actually looked up and said good morning and smiled. The moment was quick and ended as fast as it started but I actually made an effort. Thanks to all for the great advice!

Buddyhamilton's photo
Mon 03/20/17 03:02 PM
Very proud of you Karen

Buddyhamilton's photo
Mon 03/20/17 03:04 PM
My original thoughts may have been cruel and I am sorry myself

Buddyhamilton's photo
Mon 03/20/17 03:06 PM
I want to thank you because your topic has showed me just how people can be cruel to me in because of you I have learned what type of people to avoid

Buddyhamilton's photo
Mon 03/20/17 03:07 PM
You are a good lady Karen

KarenW8's photo
Tue 03/21/17 09:28 AM
Thank you Buddy, sometimes an honest opinion has it's merits. Have to admit my morning coffee experience has definitely changed.

no photo
Tue 03/21/17 09:34 AM

Have to wonder why every time I try to just sit and enjoy a cup at Starbucks by myself, I am usually approached and asked "hows the brew today or something to that effect. Now, I do understand people just being friendly but.. because I am alone really does not mean I am wanting to entertain open conversation with strange guys. Anyone else out there having the same problem? I really hate to be mean so I will try to be a polite as possible but it usually winds up with me having to look at my watch and stating I have to go before I was really ready. Any thoughts or ideas are welcome.

studies have shown that's why chicks go to starbucks.

KarenW8's photo
Tue 03/21/17 09:41 AM
Think I am just addicted to their coffee:smile:

navygirl's photo
Tue 03/21/17 09:42 AM
When I am sitting at Tim Hortons; no one normally bothers me but usually the conversation takes place in line and I am the one to initiate it. LOL Only time I have ever been bothered is when there is someone drunk trying to talk to me. Although; you have me thinking of what a character on Star Trek said. If you wanted to be alone; you wouldn't be in a public place around people. Not saying that sitting alone gives people an open invitation to talk to you but personally when I don't want to to talk to anyone; I grab my coffee and go. You could try bringing a book and pretend to be reading it and maybe that might throw people off. Either way; Op I hope you can find a place to have coffee without someone annoying you.

KarenW8's photo
Tue 03/21/17 09:48 AM
Love your photo!
Yes, do understand that people are probably just being friendly and yup, no ring on finger does make it appear I am seeking friendship (or more) sitting by myself. Have since though about my original post and realized just how smug it make me sound. Have recently make a positive effort to converse an not be so sullen in the mornings. :smile:

Jarsno's photo
Tue 03/21/17 06:33 PM


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